PORN ON MY COMPUTER

[blondie 11]

I got a problem. Yes, and I do not know how to approach it. I got a new computer about three weeks ago, and I have been the only person to use it, with the exception--of the chidrens father who ask to use it to check his email one afternoon. I was just flicking through the google sites last night as I have been looking up some things on the girlfriend that lost her son. I saw something that looked very strange--I clicked on the link--bingo--it was a link to porn of girls just over 18 doing it all. I am disturbed that this old man that is 71 is looking at this trash of children yonnger than his grandchild.

He had gone so far as to put this city in, and other things on the site.

 

Is this normal?

 

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[Nick Danger]

You have a dirty mind. That was simply a picture of two army helmets.

[TeeBubbaDee]

Just google teebubbadee for the answer.

[Bull]

Isn't that what started this whole thing? Googling I mean.

[Dazzling Zoomer Gal Diana]

Robbie - you will not get flack from me. Men are men and they like porn. Not all - but most and more than most women know. People forget that just because someone is 70+ they still feel 18 or 21 or 35 or 50 and one's age is not a sudden switch that goes off - sexuality is alive and awake for most of us and has been proven so for folks well into their nineties.

That the man made a mistake by using someone else's computer to view that which titillates him was most certainly bad behaviour, and this needs to be addressed - without judgment or opinion as to the man's sexuality vis a vie his age, as though his sexuality should have been shut down by this time in his life! By who's order and who's dictate?

There is a vast difference between standard pornography and child pornography. Most women participating in pornographic films are young. It is better to my mind to address this issue with ire, than it is to judge a man in his most mature years, wishing (perhaps)to indulge in his fantasies, and memories of more youthful times.

Sometimes, men just need to be men and women who understand this, are appreciated by them.

I might add that when Blondie reaches her late fifties - she might then view someone in their early seventies without such disdain. Who's father is this man? Is he the father of her children?

Stillgoing has advised the perfect solutions. If I were her, I'd implement same.

[CWO3ROBBIE]

People are not all the same. After watching a couple live strip shows in my early 20's I realized that I really didn't have much interest in watching women exhibit themselves if I knew that there would be nothing beyond the show. I think I have been to one strip club in the last 35 years. That was when i was out drinking and raising hell with a bunch of guys that I worked with. It just doesn't do much for me. However, it must be something that a lot of guys really enjoy because you can find strip clubs around the world. I am currently sitting in Clearwater, Florida. Today I drove to my cousin's place in Pinellas Park. On the way I drove past at least 5 strip clubs. Who frequents these places? The movie "The Wrestler" was a lot about that side of life. I can't explain it. But, I won't condemn it either. I find that with a lot of human behaviour, passing laws against it just attracts a more slezy group of people to the place it occurs. Solution? I don't have one.

[Bob Stepp]

You won't get any flack from me, Robbie. I agree with you completely. In a free society no one gets to tell anyone else what to like or not like.
Men are visual creatures....we were created that way to propogate the species. That's just the way it is and age doesn't matter. Considering that "porn" is one of the largest and most successful businesses in the world I would say a lot of men AND women enjoy it whether they admit it or not. Virtually ANYTHING can be obused with unpleasant results....food, clothing, cars, liquor, ...anything.
Blondie has the right to censure the use of her computer of course, but don't worry about a 71 year old man looking at porn unless he looks at it to the point of taking over his life.
Now, does porn degrade women? Does it degrade men? Remember, those people making the movies and photos for the most part are doing it of their own free will to make money. I don't judge 'em and I don't care what they do. They do their thing and I will do mine. If I choose to look at the fruits of their labors, I will or not.....it's my decision.

[larry kremis]

If I ever reach the age when I don't appreciate an attractive woman (young or older), then shoot me. Hard porn disgusts me, but a woman's nicely dressed or scantily clad or nude body is pleasing to look at.

[CWO3ROBBIE]

Larry, Ok, my question is; What is hard porn? Where do you or society draw the line and say; anything that exceedes this standard is "soft" porn and anything that exceeds this standard is "Hard" porn. Do we strap Larry into a chair with lots of gadgits to measure heart rate, amount of sweat, breathing rate, etc. etc. and say when the measurement exceedes this marker it will be determined to be soft porn. When it exceeds this amount it will be deemed "HARD" porn. People over 18 can watch soft porn, people over 65 can watch hard porn, people over 90 can watch anything they want, even turtle sex. and if you belong to the 700 club, you can watch anything, but nobody else, including other 700 club members, can watch anything more sexually explicit than "Bambi".

[larry kremis]

You can measure my heart rate or I can just tell you. A man and woman making love is soft. 2 people pissing on each other or beating each other is hard. IMO. I'm not into hard porn, obviously there are others who are and that's fine with me, and it doesn't matter to me if they're 18 or 98. I'm not into it.

[CWO3ROBBIE]

Ok, now that we've narrowed it down I just have to ask, What is making love? Do you think that a Bob Jones University Grad would have the same definition as Dr. Ruth?

[blondie 11]

This was hard core. I could put the link on here. Is not bad. puffy nipples--go for it--

[larry kremis]

lmao Steven.