" It all seems so stupid it makes me want to give up, but why should I give up when it all seems so stupid." Depeche Mode
And Bob Newhart- " Stop it or I will bury you alive in a box" talking with his patient that has a phobia of being buried alive.MadTV.
Most of us have 2 opportunitys at a good parent/child relationship. Your first, of course, is as a child. You get a second chance as a parent. Make the best of it. Dr. Laura Slesinger.