PORN ON MY COMPUTER

[blondie 11]

I got a problem. Yes, and I do not know how to approach it. I got a new computer about three weeks ago, and I have been the only person to use it, with the exception--of the chidrens father who ask to use it to check his email one afternoon. I was just flicking through the google sites last night as I have been looking up some things on the girlfriend that lost her son. I saw something that looked very strange--I clicked on the link--bingo--it was a link to porn of girls just over 18 doing it all. I am disturbed that this old man that is 71 is looking at this trash of children yonnger than his grandchild.

He had gone so far as to put this city in, and other things on the site.

 

Is this normal?

 

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[Maricel Evasco]

It is wrong to speak for everyone just because you feel it should be a certain way. Why do you care anyway? You are not doing it. Why do you feel compelled to speak on behalf of all women? Respect your body and live well. Steven Goth

I shall speak only for myself... I do not like porn because it cheapens sex and parts of the human anatomy by turning them into marketable commodities (depreciating with age) which to me degrade the people involved. If they were free, maybe that would be a different story. Also, I think most porn are cheesy--The story lines are trashy and the actors/actresses show no emotions other than their oh so contrived moaning and groaning which actually make me laugh. If you want to watch good sex, watch french films or soft porn like Wild Orchids, Two Moon Junction, 9 1/2 Weeks, etc. I wish Damon acted on his wish to be a porn director. I would sooo watch any porn he directs...knowing I'll be getting much from viewing than merely seeing the slapping of skins.

[stillgoing]

TSD, no more rhetorical questions this week.

[larry kremis]

But does he make a sound TSD?

[darroll]

People are getting wild on TBD tonight. It’s a full moon here. (see road kill) LOL
My buddy sent me a picture of a nude gal. I could not take my eyes off her for some reason.
Finally it dawned on me she was filthy, she had her lunch down the front of her.
Where do they get these people? From the gutter.

[nina M]

Thank god we cannot read a man's mind . Just imagine whats going on in there ;-). Feel sorry this old man got caught :(

[blondie 11]

First, I am not sorry the old fort got caught, he should not be watching the likes of his grand child in porn, He should be reading his bible.
Again, if men have to watch all this demeaning of women, why not have men masterbating, and doing lude acts. The girls are all drugged up where they can barely stand, lets do that to the guys. What happened to love. As Tina Turner said" whats love got to do with it"---if nothing--just shut the door and say good night.

[Maricel Evasco]

The majority of women want and crave to be made love to by what I have read over time. Many men can't do it. 1GreatLady53

=X You have balls to say that. LoL (high 5)

[blondie 11]

1GreatLady is just that--great. She is a straight shooter.

[CWO3ROBBIE]

I will reply to your question. However, I must first say that the reason I have not responded to your question earlier is that it is the very thing that you are ridiculing. You are refering to "men" as a homogenious group. We are not. The term "Porn" covers a very broad spectrum of behaviour. I have read nothing on this thread that says that beautiful pictures of people having sex isn't interesting to look at and probably turns me and other males on.
It is your definition of porn that is the turn off for me. I don't enjoy watching people beat or otherwise torture others, even if the others seem to enjoy it. I do get turned on by viewing films of people have healthy consesual sex. Including various positions, oral anal, whatever. I'm not into S&M and don't watch that. But it is each to his or her own.
I have to say that I have trouble understanding why you keep ending up with men who enjoy the sexual fantasies that you abhor. I don't mean that as a put down. I ask it as a legitimate question.

[TeeBubbaDee]

Dear 1GreatLady, I have the utmost respect for your beliefs. Anyone that knows me, knows that I rarely wade in on serious discusions. I am here to joke around and have a good time, but i feel a need to put my 2 cents worth into the pot.
#1. It seems to me, your b/f has a problem, which makes it your problem, and it is damaging to your relationship. But there is no advise here on TBD that is going to change his behavior.
#2. Some guy using your computer to look at porn is disgusting, no matter what age. Don't care if he is 70, looking at 18, or 18 looking at mature women, doesn't matter, there is no accounting for taste.
#3. I can tell you as a man, that I enjoy the female body in all it's glory, whether in an art gallery, or on a computer screen. And, no, I don't look at a bunch of porn, but will admit to looking on occasion out of curiosity. And, no, this is something I do not hide from my wife. Heck, we just got free movie channels for a couple days, and she actually told me to record "whatever". And I did record one very stupid movie that I fast forewared through about 98% of.
#4. The defination of "art" has been argued for decades, if not centuraries. "Porn" has also been around for a very long time, and is also very hard to define. What is "tittilating" to one person, could be interpeted as "soft porn" to another. What is "soft porn" to another, could be seen as "hard core" to someone else.
#5. I am not a fan of lots of porn. I would NEVER watch a woman being degraded, hurt, tortured, whatever. But, I do not see the harm in AN OCCASIONAL "look", and this seems to be the root of your problems with your B/F.
#6. I sincerely hope I have not offended you by stating my feelings here, because I think you are a fine upstanding person. I enjoy your posts, and consider you as an asset to TBD, and to my online experience.
Peace,
TBubD

[larry kremis]

1. yes 2. no 3. no 4. no 5. yes 6. no 7. friends 8. no

[Maricel Evasco]

1. Did you have a healthy loving relationship with your mother and sisters. yes
2. Did your mother/sisters teach you about sex and about women no
3. Did your mother tell you that sex is only for making babies no
4. Did your mother, father, sisters, brothers put you down about your sexual orientation no
5. Were you able to talk to your friends about sex when you were younger yes
6. Were you able to go to your mother/father or both about your sexual questions no
7. If not, who did you go to to get your questions answered porn, illustration books on positions, and spicy romance novels...
8. Were you an insecure young person about your physique yes

I can watch an occasional hard core porn, but I get more thrill out of reading about it (There are some very good publishers of extremely spicy romance novels.)