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I have noticed a couple of women on here that like to follow me around and nah say or insult me. I wonder what their problem is? Get a life.

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And quite ocbviously she did not...hence the question which 7 pages of input has thus far followed. In addition, there is more than one question here being asked. From even one question, cone two...or more. Depending on the size of ones concsience & understanding; & ability to express themself. Who is it that doesth protest?
And thus one thing does lead to another, you make some really good points in here Kt. It starts small and then it snowballs, from the personality one on one comes a social attitude that can be acceptable or not. At the very least an interesting study. Perhaps you should open that group when your Pc difficulties allow! Just wanted you to know that I heard your message and think your points are valid and important to more than just the one, but to anyone who cares to understand them.
Be glad to T, should I get that opportunity. Bec I seereally fine ppl here leaving, or not wantingto be part of this Social Net-WORKING Arena. Sticks n stones my arse! The fact that ppl so arrogantly use terms like "They...Must be Envious of you"... Speaks of such arrogance it...it sadly makes me laugh it's so ridicous. Some of the ppl I have briefly come accross here no nothing of humility. That is a loss for the masses (again, my opionion). I'm almost glad my computer is down. The Gaul to say, "well ya just can't let the harmful things we say cruely or in'gest u can just turn off or go away...pretty much says it all.
I think that there always has been and always will be a certain circle of "bullies" in the world. What has taken me by surprise is that in a community as small as this, I am surprised at the dynamics of the followers as opposed to the independent thinkers. I watch as one will make attempt to humiliate or attack another person and those who jump on the band wagon always surprise me.

On the other side of things, it also allows people to know who they are in the reality of real life and real life situations. I have shared that it is quite different if you are on the receiving end of a vicious and untrue attack. Some will ask pm questions, some will go away all together and some will continue to follow you wherever you go and no matter what you post find, or even make up a problem where none exists. Because I believe still yet in the hope and potential of humanity, I am still surprised, I have not allowed the world to bring me to a place of being cynical just yet. It is something I work very hard to avoid. I don't want to loose my hope in the potential of good in the human race. So I keep trying, even though I am on the short end of the stick.

One fine day I think that the world will have no choice but to offer up the best of themselves. I might not be around to see it, but I am going to keep watching, listening and waiting. It does hurt to be publicly attacked, whether you are there when it happens or learn of it later. But it won't kill you, just wound the heart and feelings. I have lived with bruises of one type or another most of my life, so there would not be a reason for me to quit believing or trying.

Take heart Kt. one fine day...and yes when I am wrong I post an apology, why? Because it is simply the right thing to do. If I can make a mistake publicly, I can admit it the same way I made it! It really is as simple as saying "I love you" or "I am sorry" both three words and can have equal impact on a human heart and life. No, not necessary, just the right thing, the kind thing to do.

I am very glad that this issue came up at all. In three short sentences, it opened a door for several to share their own experiences and feelings and after all that is a part of what a social net work is about. So as sorry as I am that anyone is shadowed, something negative can always be turned to something positive if that is what one is looking for in life.
We are birds of a feather, that fly together. I do the same... Not matter how foolish I may appear to others. I have unfortunately come across others who are not at this point in their journey. They in my obervation... Are 'ABOVE' that. I saw a mad proudly gloating that he watced a person follow him over 16 diffrent threads to have their say so, & arrogantly laughing, ironically how that it was 'her' that was crazy. Trying to grab a gang of supposed psychotherapist to qualify his OPINIon... A's he persued opening up a different and continuous dicussion about it. I was appaulled at the persistance & integration of this (with the exception of a few ppl who contributed in a higher formal response, temporarily). The term "shallow" came up. I refraid from responding for a few reasons. One, I understand that anger is a healthy emotion for a good reason, but what one does with that anger is what it vital. The irony I saw in this 'short-enough' lived division was amazing to me on a few deep levels. I comprehend the difference btw being superficial vs shallow. Many ppl are not able to discern the diff Btw envy & jealousy either. I always welcome ppl into "my inventory". Ppl need others truthful input into the way they are viwed & at the very least considerate it. U can ask ppl u trust & respect, you can ask ppl ur not really friends with. I've only said tell me the honest truth of what u think, feel, believe ir vibe you get. Your best friend will always tell u the truth, ESP if u r asking them to for ur sake. When someone asks me the same, I qualify it by saying 'Do u really want to know?" so far, they've always said yes. Bec it's re valueing & reevaluating, to become the best being u can be. Not everyone practices integrity, honesty, risk of exposure or rejection. Many ppl find the truth within & around themself & our wold that way. Life is too short for blowin smoke up the buttox. There is a mound of joy in innocent fun. I wasctaught don't say anything to anyone u wouldn't u don't want anyone that u couldn't day directly to their face, the same applies for writing; don't write something u wouldn't want anyone else to see. So words & writings & knoelege carry power & resposdibilies. It'd probably suit the world best to all be negotiators, A's opposed to just standing firmly planted on the ground never to sway & portrait. "The Road Less Traveled".
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I agree with some of what you are saying and respect your opinions.
But there is more to this subject than difference of opinion...
I personally witnessed someone being attacked personally...their private life and integrity...at a time when they werent there to defend themselves...and the 'dirty laundry' that was being aired was not only decades old but totally irrelevant to the issue being discussed...and that was on the old TBD...and when the person who was victimized came back on this new TBD (after an illness that had left her bedridden) they continued to taunt her with barely disquised contempt...disquised only enough to allow them the opportunity of denial if questioned about it...and after they had launched such a personal character assassination...an extremely personal one at that...they then tried to say they had been misunderstood...yea right...I know maliciousness when I see it...
And this has nothing to do with you KTULU7 ...and you might not even be aware of the issue that I am speaking of...but the people who were involved in that attack know exactly what I am talking about....
My point to you KTULU7 is that although you are right in what you are saying in your above statement...there is more to this disscussion than meets the eye...
I'm not one to go around following or tracking who's following & counting thread comments either, but if I'm directed to a site & see & see that ppl actually r proud to claim they do this, omg. On a hopefully final note, telling someone to "just grow up"... Should be taken as just that....cut the bs & grow up. I certainlywouldnt feel as tho I were being envied, at all. That sounds more like an insincere people pleasing statement to keep the drama alive to participate, in stead of being a responsible & mature loving adult who can extend an apology.
BRAVO Cristin...I agree with you 100%...you are the first person on here that has hit the nail on the head....
The bullies need to be held responsible for their actions and words...instead of talking all around the true point...people need to go to the source of the contention and make the wrong-doers be held accountable for their actions...that and only that will put an end to the contention...
Thank you Cristin for your comment...you are 100% right...BRAVO again!!!
Ignoring bullies is not the right thing to do...because if they are allowed to continue behind a persons back...or even in the face of the victim...ignoring it only makes it grow...grow to the point where it takes on a life of its own. Bullies arent looking for truth...they only want an 'excuse' and 'approval' for their own bad behavior. The more they are ignored the more bolder their attacks become...and they always attack in a way that doesnt allow the victim to defend themselves...and that in essence is the same as someone holding someone down while another person beats them up...
Read the above statement by KTULU7...she is 100% right in her analogy. There comes a time when bullies have to be held accountable...that is the only thing that stops the attacks. It is along the same principal as domestic violence...ignoring that can be fatal...the person who is victimized needs to get away from the person and the abuser needs to be held accountable for the damage they have done to the other person's life.
Well, I can't wade through 107 replies...suffice to say I've enjoyed Grace Linda's blogs and posts.

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