I am at a point in my life where TBD seems a perfect description. I married when I was quite young and had almost 19 years of marriage to a wonderful man before he was killed in a car accident about 6 years ago. My life since then has included many transitions, including my son leaving home (and becoming a father to my beautiful grand-daughter!), my older daughter starting college, my younger daughter becoming a high-schooler who is driving and dating, going back to work, entering the dating world myself, etc. I am looking forward to this stage of my life---finding fulfilling work, supporting my children as they leave the nest, hopefully finding another love of my life, and just figuring out what is yet to be!
PS. In the 10 months or so since I wrote the above, my life has taken yet another turn. I met a great man (here on TBD). We had been together for 6 months when he died unexpectedly a few months ago. I find myself wondering now what this stage of my life is supposed to be.