PORN ON MY COMPUTER

[blondie 11]

I got a problem. Yes, and I do not know how to approach it. I got a new computer about three weeks ago, and I have been the only person to use it, with the exception--of the chidrens father who ask to use it to check his email one afternoon. I was just flicking through the google sites last night as I have been looking up some things on the girlfriend that lost her son. I saw something that looked very strange--I clicked on the link--bingo--it was a link to porn of girls just over 18 doing it all. I am disturbed that this old man that is 71 is looking at this trash of children yonnger than his grandchild.

He had gone so far as to put this city in, and other things on the site.

 

Is this normal?

 

Help

[blondie 11]

I am very disturbed. This is an old man. Do all men look at Porn? Where are the guys????

[Lowell Brandon]

I agree with you, 1GL. It's demeaning to women to watch this sort of stuff.

[Robby the Drummer]

Yes, all men look at porn. Even if they don't want to admit it.

[Jack Z]

I don't look at porn, but the temptation is always there I we see the female body, naked or clothed, then the vain imaginations may start. I think for most men it's a battle and a balancing act, it's best to avoid it ... but at the same time not to be so repressive and anal about it that you get weird ... (sorry for the "anal" word)

Either way when considering the sensibilities of others, I think it's uncool to use another persons computer for viewing pornography...... After childhood we are men til our dying day, no matter how old. Most will never lose those old feelings. If a 71 year old man want's to view porn, I doubt he will find many senior web sites, but even if he does that may be just as disturbing as watching young women, LOL . Obviously child porn is never acceptable ............

[blondie 11]

this is creepy to think of an old man oggleing over a 18 yr old body

[Jack Z]

I agree, even when I see suggestive pics of young ladies in bathing suits and other scantily clothed outfits I see my kids and their friends faces when they were in high school. It can be quite creepy. Just give me an old broad (reasonably close to my age) in attractive attire and I'm happy. lol ........

[darroll]

Not into porn.

You see one, you see them all.

[stillgoing]

If he's not had computer access, you might write it off to curiosity. Now he has an opportunity to check what all the fuss is about. But if he's had regular internet access, then maybe your concerns are valid. For myself, I've looked long ago to see what its all about. I found naked women out of arms reach were must less interesting. But I do see in men, who I know look at porn regularly, tend to objectify women. Not just those walking through the mall but those they're in relationships with. Those that do it regularly seem to me to be narcissistic at least in my experience.
There might be a fix though. Set up a guest account on your computer and restrict the access to only go to romper room sites. Give yourself an account with a password that can go anywhere. Hey, its your computer.

[CWO3ROBBIE]

Well, First, I have to ask,"Why the big deal about him being 71 years old? Does this indicate that viewing porn at 18 is somehow more aceptable than viewing porn at age 71?
I think that you have every right to be upset that he used your computer to view it. But at the same time, I have some male friends who sometimes send me porn as e-mail. I have never forwarded it on. I have never ask them to do that. However, I have never ask them to not do that. Are you sure that you weren't looking at his e-mail? Have you ever had any indication that he is into pedophilia? If not, what is the big deal, other than using your computer to look at something that you would not otherwise look at? Believe it or not, there are also women who like porn. Stuff that is labeled porn ranges from suggestive poses, by both men and women to Snuff films. What is porn to you might not be considered porn by the law.
I would suggest that this might be the topic for an adult discussion. However, It would probably have to be in the sex threads and then it probably wouldn't get the range of opinions that it should.

Wonder how much flack I'll get because of this post?

[blondie 11]

Robbie, He is an old fart--why would an old fart be looking at his AKA grand daughter having sex? No, I was not looking in his email. WHY would I do that?????

[CWO3ROBBIE]

I meant, by mistake.

[Aggie]

Pru, I saw turtle porn link on your profile the other day.