Starting Over

[carmen blanco]

Hi Guys:

Just joined Ning. I have enoyed tbd in the past, so whats in a name. Tbd was extremely wonderful
and all it's members: friends when I was going through a very hard time in my life. Becoming a
single mom was not an easy thing to do but I had alot of advise and support which has made me the
person I am today. Stronger than ever before. Now we have to look forward and go on. I plan on
enjoying something new and hopefully make even more friends with Ning.

Carmen

[carmen blanco]

Hi Alice: thanks for being my new friend. Hope we can chat and be here for each other. I have many friends but they all know my: stbx (soon to be x) He is standing still in regards to the divorce. I have no money, only living from pay check to paycheck but very strong and have alot of faith.

He doesn't file because he knows that bothers me. His girlfriends don't care they just use him for his money only he thinks that it's because he's hot. lol He's so cold that he'd your skin crawl.

Anyway friend, glad to chat with you. I'm on break now so I'll try to be back later on.

Carmen

[Alice]

Carmen....I feel what you must be going through....I'm in the divorce process myself. It is not easy no matter how "nice" you try to make it work....an end is hard even though it is the beginning of something new. Problem is when we marry we never think that many years later we'd be facing starting new again......kinda doesn't fit into our world we created and dreams we looked forward to. I, like you, got stronger and more determined to keep my dreams but redirect my energy into enjoying them by myself and with friends. AND, if I happen to meet someone special to share them with....great, but it is not stopping me from moving on and planning now. Glad you are here. Hi to Terry and Carol as well.

[teesixx]

Hi Carmen, would you please be my friend, i'm pretty new in here too , i just like to talk to people and it looks like you just went through alot and i'm sorry to hear that, I always have a shoulder you can lean on,
thank you Terry