Gone Too Far Now

[Tina]

Hello, So I see that "someone" is now starting accounts all over the internet using my name, different address, but my name, One I found is using a picture of Betty Boop, like sammy used to use and guess what that one is? A sex sight! Nice since I have been on my own for eight years now! No it's not sammy doing it. However it looks like it may be someone from This site. Because now I find that someone is using one of my Native American Avatars from TBD on MySpace and calling themselves "Tina" of course it is a closed profile so we can't see who it is. They are from Ohio or so it says. Personally I do not think it is funny, however I do hope that whomever it is they are having a good time. I have a myspace with MY NAME, and MY photos, I opened mine to the public today!

It is not a wonder why such a thing would be done. There has been so many lies and ill intended people on TBD trying to discredit my being, my life and even my illness that they would have to do something to try and show themselves worthy.

So this is my hope for you all, even those who are doing this Identity theft, I hope with all my heart that no one ever does this to you, to your spouse, to your son or daughter, because it is nasty and it is wrong. Those who do this don't care because it is not them. What has been done on TBD was ugly and wrong; apparently this wasn't enough to keep a few amused and now they have gone to the entire internet.

I am here, just as I have been except when I was gravely ill, to tell you that none of what has been post here or out there is me or true and frankly I am appalled by the sheer stupidity of those doing it. I now understand why a few vulnerable people have bought this horrific lie and scheme. Why me? I have still, not one clue as to why. Here I am folks, it's up to you.

What has been done using my name and the lies continue in PM's, is completely unfounded and untrue. Those of you who are getting your golly's off on this, I bless you, for I do not curse others. Those of you who bought it and continue to do so, You are dead set wrong. Either way, I think that it is a sick way to amuse yourselves and sincerely pray that it is never done to you..........Tina

[Golanv]

Tina ~ I had no idea this was going on again, especially to this extent. There are many people here who do know who was behind the innuendo and attack at the old site. We saw it. I have a few things I copied from old site while you were so ill that you may be interested in now. I stand with you my Sister. All Ways. I have been attacked and censored before for doing so but Light is stronger than any of this garbage that has taken place there or here. I agree that it has to be spoken of openly and the front page is a good spot for it. Truth is Truth. Gossip is only gossip and serves no one. I do not usually hear it because the people who spread it are not on my friends list. Just know that there are so many of us here who love you and are very glad to see you responding to the Light, Love and Prayers still being sent to you. Very glad to know that you are here to stay. Walk in Power, Tina. We are walking with You. In Love and Light All Ways ~ Raven

[Tina]

Thanks Cindy, that won't change I love love, kindness, compassion and peace. I love people and I never mean harm, when I make mistake I apologize on the same board I posted my mistake, then I apologize personally then I delete my bad! That is the good, kind and decent thing to do one human to another.
We all falter, some seem to just be grounded in hate.
TBDNing is a good concept, this time things were handled poorly, very poorly and it cannot continue, I am so thankful if you have gained good Cindy, good always does come in time in all things, if we choose to find it.
To all those who turned their backs on me, you that I love and care about, I was never lying or faking a thing to you, about my care for you or about my life. It's been a journey for sure and I miss every one of you. Cindy, thank you for acknowledging your hurt and your son's, thank you for not allowing them to win by leaving and backing down. They don't know what they are truly doing Cindy nor the reality of the actual harm they have, are or do cause with the wounds and hate they keep inside. I am sorry for them Cindy, I truly am and sorry for all of those that have been the source of their hate and attacks.
Please stop people, you were and are wrong, sorry but sometimes we are and this one is on you.
Blessings, Tina

[Tina]

NO Mark, It is and it will be dealt with, this cannot continue, this is is easily a clear case of online attacking, this is what so many sweep under the rug with our children in public schools, this is what some, a select few here have decided is acceptable. It is not acceptable to everyone and it is not acceptable to me anymore. I have never done anyone here harm, nor have I given false information about who I am or my health. In fact my only fault here is that I trusted those who said they were online friends. That I am 100% guilty of and a few followed I don't know for the drama of it or sheer ignorance, whatever the reason they did as they did and it stops here for me. No I am not leaving a community that I highly value and friends that have proven themselves to be real life friends.
Several have brought this topic up and each time behind the scenes a "the few" have shut it down. You know the saying keep your friends close and your enemies closer, well those who seem fixed on this here have some very close friends!
I am praying for us all. I do not wish to see this site closed as the old site was, I do aim to see that this bulling, this hate stops on the front pages where those who are weak minded are influenced and then it just does not end. As I have shared this could have and should have been stopped months ago, especially since I was not and am not known for being combative or one who jumps into even a heated discussion. I do not need to change here, I do not need to develop tougher skin as a few would demand that we do. Unacceptable behavior needs to be stood against by decent good people. That is the only change the whole world needs. This could and should he=ave ended the day it began because the things that were allowed on the front pages of TBD were speculation without one fact or ounce of truth.
I did ignore, I did let it go and I did re establish myself here on ning happily, I too have some wonderful friends here and on several ning sites now, I have done nothing wrong, the trouble for the kids is that no one stands with them or up for them and they feel alone and are being attacked, so many have taken their own lives, a few adults as well, look it up for your facts! I did.
No more sweeping it under the rug, no more bully manipulation every time someone brings it up. Play nice or don't play. Nope I see no need for it not to change, or the world peace situation My Dear friend Mark, it is all up to the people and the choices that each makes and those who condone or reject bad behavior.
The people who have done this know just who they are, I still love you and I do forgive you, that doesn't mean that one way or another this will end. It cleared out who the true friends were in a hurry, go for it friends, I am not leaving, Until God Himself decides that it is my time to transition, and He will for me and for you. I am not sorry for sharing a little of my life here, I am glad, I have made some great friends, they call me and they are wonderful life support, which is all I have ever tried to be for everyone of you.
When it began I kept thinking, these are good people they will come forward and make this right, I think I was mistaken, these are some deeply wounded, bitter people I guess who cannot bring themselves to admit it. Ok, it's ok, but This has to stop, and as I always say, "Let it begin with me". You went too far guys and you are hurting several people here. I am who I portray myself to be and I guess you are too! Only what I do by posting kind sayings and encouraging is not against the law!
Mark take heart, a few of us still believe in the goodness of the human race, I do!

[Mark F Lamb]

I hope someone figures out who the culprit(s) are and stops them. Lies, hoax, and malicious bullying not only endangers TBD but the Internet as a whole. Cannot understand. Do not want to understand. Just wish they would be gone. I supposed that has about as much chance as world peace?

[Tina]

Thanks Sedona, I did not know about that last one you mention. When the police get back to me with whatever Myspace has turned up I will pursue it to the end. I do not often take a stand, this time, I believe in my heart and spirit that this has truly been taken too far. I have learned that it is very illegal however not just the one doing it but those who run sites and do nothing against it also are held responsible. For instance, If Myspace had not responded to my notice they too could have been held responsible.
See this has been my point all along. This matter should have been swiftly dealt with months ago when everyone knew and was reading the lies and slander unfounded by any fact of reality when I was unable to respond or even knew what was being allowed and done. This is how it all happens. For children in schools it is because Teachers and Principals say "oh don't be a tattle tale", "oh don't whine", "Oh just go have fun". Well are we in our right mind the child would just go have fun if the bullies would leave him/her alone.
And the pack of attackers on line the same thing, if some would not follow the leader of attacks, if one person that was doing it or following it had checked it out they would have known as did my friends, that there was not one word of truth. See this goes so far beyond me, beyond Tina, I am fine, I know the truth, I know why the person slandered me, they are deeply wounded by others and jealous that I have a loving and caring family, and I get that. I forgive easily. But this denial that it goes on every time someone brings it to the forefront, is beyond human sensibility. Those in charge of schools, PARENTS at home, teachers and Anyone in authority should be taking a strong stand against anyone who bullies, slanders or attacks. I have nothing to hide, I will say it a thousand times over, I welcomed all calls and I welcomed two TBD members into the home when I was able to do so. I welcome them now. So say as you will, I am not hiding and I have not hidden, I have waited for someone to be "being" enough to step forward and right the wrong, because I do believe in people and I do love this community. However as pride and/or foolishness would have it, it was swept under the rug each time it was brought out.
Yes it is sad, yes it is illegal and no I have done nothing to provoke it except nearly die in my bed.
Thank you for the prayers Sedona, pray for the many people whose lives have been turned upside down, too please, pray for those who just continue to harass and attack, even after they are stopped on posts then they pm, the same junk or they start accounts using someone else's name, picture ect... It is a shame and sad what one human will do and the extent they will do it just so they do not have to admit that they may have been wrong to begin with...It was a sad day for me when I first encountered this and it will be another sad day when it is all over.
Again and again, I send out my love and blessing, Tina

[Sedona7]

Tina my heart goes out to you. It is a Federal offense. You can also contact [e-mail] and the FBI for stolen identies and harrasement. I and my famly have had to deal with both. My prayers are with you. I am glad you are taking a stand. I will be lifting you up and prayng a legion of angels around you. Darkness can not stand in light.
love you!

[Tina]

Well Karla as usual, Jacquin gave some good advice on this blog and I have heeded her and Pru's advice. Truth be told I have put this off for so long because I did not want any of those whom "I befriended" to know any harm. I have waited for them to be the people I believed them to be and come forward, with the truth that they were hurt by someone else and clean the slate. I fogave them when I found all the slander and I forgive them now. Only now they are a potential danger to others as well, so I will not wait any longer. Each time the subject has been brought up on this site the same bullies come out and spit all over me again. I am no one's victim, Ask my ex-husband, And I am a peaceful person who wants nothing but to bring love and peace, A small group has decided that I am a public offense showing kindness and love for people. Well I am NOT sorry for that. I am who I am and I feel that the world needs some peace and love, kindness and compassion. When I was alerted to this and that the original person who slandered me was now send out pm's sending people to a site I didn't even know existed I knew that I could no longer just sit back. When I punched in my real name on search people, I found that Betty Boop was sporting my name and on a sex site!
Many people bought what was sold, I am sure they had their own reasons for doing that, but it is wrong and yes, hurtful, I am not going to go any more nutty than I originally was to begin with! But you are correct some have and some were children. This is a serious matter to me and to a few others who have had it done to them.
Online is a wonderful way for some of us to connect to real people. I am real folks, I am who I am and some of you were very cruel and said some very ugly things and a couple of you just cannot give it up, you continue to pm lies and slander behind my back. Nope I cannot stop you , you are correct, however you can be stopped from starting up other sites in my name. It is wrong and I am truly sorry that you are so demented or sad inside that you have seen fit to attack me. I have taken all I can and I am not leaving TBDNing. I have done not one thing wrong and I mean nor have I done any person harm here. So sorry that I could not help you, I would have. Blessings and love...

[Karla KC]

Getting law enforcement involved is the right thing to do.
Bullying in cyberspace has led to suffering and even suicides.
One needs to do what needs to be done to stop it.
Hope this site can do something on its part.

[Tina]

Myspace has been notified as well as the Local police here, as soon as Myspace traces the owner of the account they will give the information to the police........I simply will not take this any longer, it needs to stop now, today! I have done all I am able to ignore those who wish to continue, I am not this years punching bag folks, I am just another person who loves the human race and happens to belong to this community whether you like my love and kindness or not...Blessings and Thalia and the rest thank you very much, I tell you you would hate it if it was you or someone you loved. I hope it will help one other person, just one would be enough for me. No more ignoring, here is the attention this person seeks. With love

[thallygal]

My dear Tina,
I had no idea this was going on. I thought that all of the bull stopped when we moved sites...I am so sorry that you are having to experience this kind of grief in your life at this point, for I know you to be nothing but loving, kind, tender, compassionate, thinking of others and their very best interests. i am outraged that others could be so cruel, as you so aptly put it...they are filled with hate and bitterness and in order to look better themselves, they need to do something to others...
If there is anything that I can do...
Blessings to you my dear friend
love,
thalia