I lie and say I have to go somewhere and there is one person that calls; hardly says anything and there's a long awkward silence. I can't stand that. Like, if you don't have anything to say, why'd you call? So yeah, I duck those calls now.
I always take the calls but find an excuse to hang up when I need to.
I love speaking on the phone. When I speak with my ex we usually talk for about an hour. Talking with my daughter is about a half hour. I speak with my best friend,still in N.Y.,for about an hour. All these are about once a month. Anyone else takes 15-20 minutes.
I don't mind talking for an hour or so if the other person is truly having a conversation with me.
I don't like talking on the phone but I will talk to a few people. There was one old gentleman that I knew from work who would call and ramble on and on. Sometimes I would just let him talk to the machine. But I would feel guilty because he is old. I did the same as other people and made up excuses about having to hang up when he called.
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