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I have noticed a couple of women on here that like to follow me around and nah say or insult me. I wonder what their problem is? Get a life.

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Thistle - I think you should post whatever you want. I do. If someone doesn't like it - too bad for them. :-)
..."personally I could give a rats ass. THEY Own That"... PEACE'I Hardley think so... & that's the point exactly...The ppl that don't Personally give a rats ass...about much other than their high opinion of thensef & absolute opinion. Well...Since u seen 2 K iw it All... The u would be familiar with the saying, "Every A-Hole has an Opinion"...ever consider using sone tact? Have a litTle respect or an ounce of openMindedness. I wasn't speAking of u or trr by the way. Not that hat is of any interest to u, considering how u state ur 'feelings' about not Defending ur self. I believe that's more along the lines of narcassism & not healthly self expression A's u may choose to percieve. Perhaps u may be wise enuf to listen b4 responding so desperately fast to the next reply that may not even have to do with u. Just a thought ....or no, opinion as u say.
I always admire your straight-forwardness anthony.
There is a big difference in disagreeing with someone's opinion and attacking someone's personal integrity ...especially airing of dirty laundry of their personal life that has nothing to do with 'opinions'...especially when the 'dirty laundry' they are airing is so old that it is filled with cobwebs and totally irrelevant to the subject at hand anyhow. That is just plain maliciousness...
and attacking someones personal life like that is NEVER the right thing to do...so dont act like it is some kind of misunderstanding...that is BS...
and just so you know it...I dont give a shit what you think of me or my opinions....your opinion means nothing to me Mr. Kremis... and look I said it directly to you and not behind your back when you dont have a chance to defend yourself...like you did...and still on this new TBD made snide remarks ...barely disquised (just enough to allow you a chance for denial if questioned about it by the person you were referencing in your remarks) and you were attacking a person who had done NOTHING to you but offer kindness...and I know you know who I mean...or do you want me to use her name...I would but you would probably just deny it...that is what gossipers are good at... just MHO...
now you have a 'reason' to not like me...and I could care less Mr. Kremis...
It must be the beans
So may I authentically ask this question then... If u have 'a life' then isn't this part of it? This is why u r here & u r posting, correct? Is the the Outside Life, or the Exstistential Life, or Real life, or fake Life?... Am I hearing you assume that ppl who post here more often than u do...don't have a life? This may sound fecicious to u, but I'm actually curious. Bec I haven't all the time or resources to get online either-but if I did, & chose to spend it in this manner, then ...would I, not have a life? Does my being disabled come into some sort of Exception Box or something? Could it be that some ppl actually have a very fine full rounded life here & within their homes. Or even make time from wk to get here. Would that mean my life means less than your's does? I ask bec... It seems like a valuable question. I am perfectly anonymous to you, so I guess I'm asking for all tbd'rs that would be anonymous to you. Certainly you need not reply if you choose. It may or may not be part of this topic anyways. Relevance may be difficult to determine at times.
For starters, exchanges in text are the worst means of communicating. Unless you get very lengthy, many subtle aspects are omitted. We don't have body language, facial cues, and voice inflection to help us determine what is meant exactly, so then we start trying to read between the lines and sometimes we find things that weren't really there. And we've all been guilty of that.

Now about the shadow hating. I'm betting many of us "old timers" could toss out a few names and get at least one right in regards to who's been hassling Grace. Many of us have been assaulted with a very distinctive MO. It's usually snide remarks on a forum, followed by a PM, and then we're flagged if we respond to the PM. I don't know about here, but at the old TBD that would automatically cause the flagged person's PM to lock up until it could be addressed by an administrator.

So for those that suggested dealing with it in PM, many of us that have dealt with The Shadow have not only found this to be fruitless, but fatal for at least the remainder of the day, giving The Shadow the satisfaction of shutting you down.

That doesn't mean that dealing with problematic people in an adult, direct manner is wrong, it just means that TBD's chronic Shadows use it against you.

TRR, you seem like a good soul. Please don't take offense at somebody saying that their initial impressions were wrong about you, sometimes it just takes a few posts before getting a good handle on a person. It falls back to trying to read between the lines when alll there might really be is white space. I hope you're able to maintain your reasonable approach in this geriatric Lord of the Flies bunch. And yes, I was being glib, if anything, I'm one of the nuttier ones, and most of the boys on this island know I'm just trying to be funny. We're all great, crazy, loving, insensitive, understanding, and brutal. Almost like a real, live community!

And Thistle, glad to see you speaking up. I wouldn't worry about attacks on your computer. I've been offending people on TBD since the original site started, and I haven't been nuked yet. =D
This is one of the most interesting thread that have been put together. I have been on this site for some time now ans seen um come and go. I have seen the stalkers and the non. I have been in on a thread made a statement and the "in crowd "just kept talking as if i was not there. I have felt ignored, abused, insulted and I can go on and on. Then comes the question, Why would I hang around a site that I suffered such humilation? Some of the guys on this site and down right nice. There are so real thorn on the roses here, but I choose to ignore them and stay with ther roses.That is what life is made up of choices and no one is bound to stay anywhere they are not comfortable. When and if I get to that point it will be bye-bye
JaW - welcome fellow "nut!' And hey, I resemble that"unless you get lengthy" comment! Bwuahaha! You are and always have been one of my heroes!
Peace, Jo
Yeah, I'm your hero because when people look at my "lengthy" they say yours aren't so bad! LOL! Hey, I'll catch you "THERE", nobody's been posting all weekend, I was beginning to worry!
I've looked and I don't see where Grace asked for any advice. It seems to me that Grace wasn't asking for a solution to a problem , but merely making a statement.
That's never stopped us before




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