Just today someone told me that I seemed "comfortable in my own skin".
I guess I am. I learned a long time ago that not everyone was going to like me. I accept that so, I am who I am and I'm good with that.
My brother thinks I'm a bitch.
My friend thinks I'm too competent. I should be complimented, I think, but the way she says it leaves me wondering :-)
Beyond that? I don't know. Do we always see ourselves honestly? Are we willing to brag on ourselves and be seen as vain? Are we willing to admit our faults and leave ourselves open for ridicule?
I would guess that, while quite a few people wish that they could have strangled me in my crib, at least they don't think that I'm stupid. Insolent, infuriating and obnoxious, yes, but not dumb.
A few people think that I'm funny and enjoy my musical taste. And some of them know from personal experience that they can count on me when they need a hand. My daughter loves me, my fiancee loves me, my dogs love me, and that's good enough for me.
How do I see you, Ms. Dodger? I would LIKE to see you. I find you facinating-- your personality, your values, and your artistic talent. And especially your courage.
Are you surprised?
Permalink Reply by P.A. on August 11, 2010 at 11:38am