More power to you and I mean that in a good way, as if it could be taken another. I nice to see another self professed writer. Just a note---Good writers are people watchers, amongst many other things that we are. Just a little about me: I've been with several seemingly significant others over a span of thirty years---each have different, and my approach to each was also different, but all be said, you can't really know who someone is until you actual are involved with them. Each were completely different than what they found turned out to be. Some were better lovers and liars, while others were just better liars. The thing I found most frustrating is that it is always much more difficult to give up when you know things are not going right, because inside there resides elements of hope.