Many activities of workplace bullies are conducted in a subtle and devious manner. People whose confidence and self-esteem have been exposed to subtle, devious harassment find it immensely difficult to confront the bullies. It can also be difficult for others to identify such behaviour. Men and women enduring less obvious bullying can feel confused, even paranoid, because of the unpredictability and irrationality of the behavior. They can use up emotional and mental resources trying to figure out what's going on and how to defend themselves.
Harassment or bullying often starts or intensifies during a period of change, such as a new manager or a new colleague who is strong and competent. It is related to the way a person has learned to influence or dominate people and to the values expressed by institutional practices. People who are high achievers, are successful, have higher qualifications, are more efficient, have superior social skills, have good looks, or are more creative are more likely to be the targets of bullies. The root of bullying behavior is often insecurity and personal envy of the targeted individual.
With a group of people, there may be a "ringleader" with others in the workplace condoning or engaging in similar behavior. They may do so to keep safe or to stay out of trouble with the leader. If you support the target, you may attract the same treatment.
Have you ever been a target of workplace bullying?
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