well i am 40, been married 14 years i am affraid we have grown apart and it makes me sick to my stomach. noone gets married thinking this will ever happen to them. so i still have some holes in my life that need patched. just looking for friends to do that with. i have a great zest for life and i love new and exciting things.my favorite quote is one i live by. " if i was to die tomorow what did i do today to make someone smile "