Hello Everyone, I'm a 41 year old mother of two boys ages 17 and 11. They are great kids and I can't imagine life without them, however, I would like to discover a life of my own now that I've been separated for the last 9 months. There is no doubt that I will not be going back to that relationship because now that I'm out I realize just how much of my life it took away from me. I'm strong assertive woman at work, but when it came to my personal life, I was weak and sad, which in turn has left me with a self diagnosed social disorder. I have a fear of "getting out there" and discovering all the wonderful things life has to offer me. I look forward to meeting and chatting with people and making friends. Please feel free to approach me because I might be just a little to shy at first to approach you.