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GRUDGES

Are you holding a GRUDGE against someone? Why?

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Permalink Reply by Karin M Fichtner on April 10, 2014 at 10:54am

All depends on what is meant by " grudge". My closest friend in Illinois....a woman I had known for several years....someone whose kids were always in my house, as mine were in hers .......told me about 3 years after I got divorced from my childrens' father......that she had slept with him during that period of time that I was trying so hard to salvage my marriage. Why she felt she needed to confess such a thing.....after I had moved on with my life and remarried......I don't know. I have forgiven her; I believe in forgiveness. But I have never forgotten it. Is that a grudge?

Permalink Reply by carrie cavanaugh on April 10, 2014 at 11:39am

WOW,WOW,WOW. What an awful person. I hope she is no longer your friend. How could you ever trust her again? YOu are a nice person than me, I would never be able to forgive either of them.

Permalink Reply by LoveLife&Laughter on April 10, 2014 at 11:02am

Yes. I don't mean too but I can't help myself.

Three gay guys down block think they own it and if you don't "bend over backwards" for them they go out of their way to cause all kinds of problems. Many neighbors have suffered their wrath.

My problem started with them when they tried to tell me where I was allowed to walk my dog. I told'em to go "F" themselves and they started rumors that I was having an affair with one of our good friends.

I guess I'm very vindictive, ~5 years and I'll still take any chance I get to annoy them -- which most of the time they're too stupid to get anyhow. But I do have fun ...

Permalink Reply by LoveLife&Laughter on April 10, 2014 at 11:04am

p.s. The lady's husband told them, "I don't care" and the lady told them, "I'd love too."

Permalink Reply by carrie cavanaugh on April 10, 2014 at 11:41am

Sounds like something I would do. My daughter calls it the "mean girl mom". I will mess with your head if you make me mad, I find it funny, because you are right, usually they are too stupid to figure it out.

Permalink Reply by CaliforniaNow on April 10, 2014 at 11:32am

Not really. I still know where that grudge is but I don't go looking for it or hold onto it.

Permalink Reply by carrie cavanaugh on April 10, 2014 at 11:42am

Good for you! I know it's not healthy to hold a grudge.

Permalink Reply by carrie cavanaugh on April 10, 2014 at 3:16pm

Permalink Reply by flippr 2.0 on April 10, 2014 at 3:21pm

no,no grudges,i been screwed over probably as much as the next person,but I don't let it eat me up.move forward.

Permalink Reply by carrie cavanaugh on April 10, 2014 at 8:33pm

I can only think of one person I hold a grudge against and that was a long time ago.

Permalink Reply by Lifesighs on April 12, 2014 at 6:08pm

No, life is good and the past is gone.

Permalink Reply by officerripley on April 12, 2014 at 7:52pm

Like flipper said, I've been screwed over by people but it's best to just move on if you can. Heck I tried & tried to explain my side to a coupla gals who screwed me over a few years ago & they just wouldn't listen. Then it dawned on me that they didn't care whether I was right or not; they got mad at me, went after me, & then moved on to the next thing in their lives. So I guess that's about all I can do too.

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