How important is it to you to have the man open the door
for you, car door etc. Do you enjoy it or is that dead
Any guy who opens the door for a woman is showing respect for the woman, IMO. Any guy who won't do that, does not have my respect for him as a guy. An exception to this is if an unintentional mistake occurred, such as accidentally forgetting to hold a door. But then again, it's based on the guy's attitude towards women as well. So, IMO it is not only a desire to have a man holding a door; but, a necessity as a measure of good manners and civilized behavior, thank you very much.
I don't think about it much any more, I have been single for 28 years and am used to doing things on my own, sometimes when I am out shopping and some holds the door for me I just not sure what to do!
Well, Eaglewoman; that's how things stand in this day and age. It's good to have a balance and doing things on one's own. When and if someone holds the door open for me, I just say "Thank you" and I find that that always has a positive effect for both the person holding the door and for myself. And then, I just go about my business. Nobody judges anyone in that regard. But, I am speaking for myself here and my experiences with the door holding issue.
I think it's nice a great little special thing to happen. My husband used to do it, however things change, he is now 84 and uses a cane I sometimes help him in and out. Since he is 16.5 years older than I am I'll give him a break. He would like to be my hero still but it isn't practical anymore.