It took me a long time to realize that I was a BBW. Shit. Most of my life i fluctuated between a size 10-14. I didn't think anything of it because I looked good. I have come to realize that in todays jargon anything over a size 0 is considered fat. WTF. Well people, that's your problem. i'm a size 14. I can handle my sh^t and I feel good and so should we all.