I have very little experience with love but,

[michael clubb]

   I'm still in love with a girl I haven't seen or spoken to in nearly 15 years.

I was just wondering; Is this a common experience? Are you still in love with

someone from your past? Or, is someone from your past still in love with you?

[realteal]

haha, funes. Good to see you.

Could be right, and being apart is so much easier! Preserves the love.

[Quinn]

Anyway, to answer the question...

 

I have affection for a couple of past beaus, but love them? No, I don't.

 

Do you love her Michael, or do you love the idea of her at the time you knew her?

[michael clubb]

Quinn, I don't really know the answer to that question.  I was in love with her when I broke up with her and she was in love with me, or at least she said she was. She bawled like a baby but I had decided that she deserved someone better than me. She was 20 years younger than I. And yes, she is now married with children. I wonder if she thinks of me from time to time.

[Quinn]

I only ask because a lot can change in 15 years...What you loved then might be different today, ya know?

 

[michael clubb]

Yeah, I tell myself that all the time. Maybe I'm just a romantic and should be a realist but she was a wonderful girl and we were great friends for a long time before I even kissed her.

[michael clubb]

caseyjo, I don't think anyone is really mad at you. I'm not.