Say you go out with a new person. Who leads with the kiss? How do you kiss someone who doesn't kiss the way you like or are used to? HOw do you get another person to kiss the way you want to?
if he is not kissing the way you want to, imagine him thinking the same thing about you. there is no right way or wrong way of kissing . just tell him what makes you feel good if he wants to see some action !
And I think you have used Ross before, so wonder if there may be some kind of subliminal attraction to window kissers. (Please let me know so I can practice)