TBD on Ning
Closure
I told you about my online frenemy of many years who was very ill. I haven't heard from him in a month. I just called his house( not something I did before except one time a few years ) and there was no answer and the greeting was generic. He was so ill that his last Emails contained many doubled letters and missing letters and he said he wanted his life back.
How does one get closure in a sitaution like this? He said I was on the list of people to be notified when he passed. I am almost ill from not knowing. There is no one I can call; I look up the obituaries and don't see his name. I don't Think I will ever know for sure.
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Permalink Reply by crestofwaves on
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When I said suffering, I meant his, not mine. I don't know if I have that kind of fight in me. God bless all suffering with medical issues.
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Permalink Reply by Lifesighs on
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Glad you got some answers Joanne, not a good health report but that he's still here.
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Permalink Reply by blithe spirit on
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This made me smile a little bit ago when I saw your message on FB. I feel bad for him that we has been so sick but happy for you that you heard from him. So I assume you are still on his contact list then.
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He has issues for sure and thinks like a right wing nut, but integrity isn't one of his lacks--compassion maybe, but not integrity. There were only three possibilities: Death, serious illness or going off with one of his women--but I seriously didn't think he would have done the latter and left me thinking he was as ill as he was the last time we talked if he ran off to Paris. He would have let me know he was OK.
Blithe, I think of you as well and am sending positive thoughts and vibrations your way always. It ain't easy, this survival thing.
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