just wondering,,,

[michael clubb]

I recently sent my ex wife $250 for the specific purpose of getting new breakpads for her car. She got rid of the car instead so I asked her to send me the money back. She screamed and hollered and called me names, said she spent the money,  and then hung up on me. Was I wrong to want my money back?

[Bob Stepp]

I would have bought her the brake pads....not sent her money.

Good luck...but I'm afraid you're screwed without getting kissed.

*No, you're not wrong for WANTING it back*

[michael clubb]

Kooner, I don't know the answer to your question, but the only reason I sent her the money for the breaks was because she was driving  my grandkids around in the other car.

[Snagg]

No, you weren't wrong for wanting your money back.

 

You were wrong for expecting your ex to act with integrity or honesty.

[d's girl]

My ex acts w/integrity & honesty all the time, Snagg. Maybe you know something about Michael's ex that I don't, but know that there are some ex's out there who are fine people.

 

Michael - I feel it was absolutely reasonable to ask for, and get, your money back. I guess at this point it can be a lesson that hopefully will prevent worse scenarios from occurring in the future.

[Snagg]

D'sG, I'd say that I was drawing on Mr Clubb's ex's reaction - The "hollering" and name-calling. That doesn't strike me as person with a long-standing history of fairness or decency.

 

 

[d's girl]

No, it certainly doesn't, Snagg. (I just wanted to come to the defense of some ex's in the event that you were using a broad brushstroke there '-)

[Snagg]

If you'd ever met my ex, you'd be congratulating myself for how well I held myself back.

[Quinn]

Michael, you are right. She is wrong.

[Stir Young]

Any chance of getting her married off again?

[michael clubb]

stir, I can't imagine anyone wanting her!

[Stir Young]

Hope springs eternal, Michael!

[larry kremis]

Take her to Judge Judy.