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Permalink Reply by Wayne Goodwin on June 13, 2013 at 4:58am

First question , never have , Even if sex related .

Second question probably a lot , May take a short road trip of a whole day one (Gas Permitting) , Walmart could be any time . Sometimes i just go there to just watch women going in and out of store , Is that normal ?

Permalink Reply by dwalt on June 13, 2013 at 6:28am

I pretty much have to plan what I do. Between working and my animals I can't just "get up and go" Most of my friends are in Houston so I don''t have that many people to hang out with. I keep work and my social life at a distance and drive over 100 miles a day so I'm pretty well pooped when I get home.

Permalink Reply by Wayne Goodwin on June 13, 2013 at 8:54am

I admire women and ya sure do see some dusies there ...Something to do .....

Permalink Reply by dwalt on June 13, 2013 at 8:56am

Wayne, are you the one that takes "those pictures" of people seen at Wallyworld?

Permalink Reply by Wayne Goodwin on June 13, 2013 at 9:02am

I wish

Ya gotta be there to see them , I'm still waiting ....

Permalink Reply by Karin M Fichtner on June 13, 2013 at 10:10am

I can be very spontaneous. I have a spirit of adventure, and I like to try new things or go new places. When I was married, my ex and I would get out a map and pick a location we felt drawn to, and then we'd fill the thermos, pack up some snacks, and go. We found some really cool places that way, and saw some pretty neat things. One Sunday morning in October, the weather man said the color in Michigan was peaked, and if we wanted to see it, we had better get going. So we threw some things in the car, and before the day was over, we'd put almost 500 miles on the car. We watched the sun go down on Lake Michigan at a lighthouse in Luddington, MI, and then had a lovely dinner in a Chinese restaurant on the way back. A great day! We found a beautiful little village called Saugatuck, that was on an inlet of the Lake. Gorgeous old houses, many of which are bed n breakfasts, a quaint little street filled with lovely little shops, and a great restaurant, where we returned to celebrate one of our wedding anniversaries.

My son and I will do that sometimes.....especially when his wife is in Thailand. He'll have some place to go on an errand, and he'll suggest I come along, and we end up somewhere we've never been, prowling around looking at some neat stuff. We did that in N. Carolina, when he took me to a wooden boat show in Beaufort, N.C. A wonderful time!

I'm usually up for just about anything.

Permalink Reply by Wayne Goodwin on June 13, 2013 at 10:26am

Before i got hurt i used to get up in the morning go pick my cousin up . We would head in one direction taking roads we'd never been on . Once we headed to Tenn. Got to Johnson Tenn , went on up into Kentucky . Took a left and flowed the state line over to I 75 . Came back to Knoxville Tenn and got a room . Come home next morning . He paid half the gas and half the hotel room . Really enjoyed that ride . Since I'm having such a hard time holding my water (Even on meds for it) I find it's hard to do a trip like that ....Sure miss them ....

Permalink Reply by frenchy on June 13, 2013 at 10:41am

i used to be when i was younger .. not so much anymore . i can remember just jumpin in the car and goin to canada for the weekend cause hey i felt like it but that kinda stuff just don't appeal to me anymore .. i'm happier just putterin around the house .. one of the reasons i'd never make a really good rock star cause i'd hate livin on the road . 2 days out i'd wanna go back and some of them tours could go on for months and months at a time and all you can think is ohh goody .. another airport .. another holiday inn .. and where the hell are we ? is this cleveland or pittsburg ?? who can tell the difference anymore ?? i'd be the shithead sayin come on detroit lemme hear ya and we'd be in st. louis ..

Permalink Reply by Lifesighs on June 13, 2013 at 12:38pm

When I wasn't responsible for anyone but myself I was very spontaneous not so much any more.

Karin, loved those sand dunes in Saugatuck, we spent many weekends there in our late teens and 20's when I lived in Mich. good memories for me. I think it was the first place I saw flip flops for sale, either there or Port Sanilac on Lake Huron.

I can do things on a whim easily, I can suddenly decide I want to see a movie or go for a drive or make something different for dinner besides what I planned.

Permalink Reply by crestofwaves on June 13, 2013 at 12:46pm

I'm pretty spontaneous, but I'm not rash. I had to re-learn to be spontaneous, which is how I grew up, but 24 years married to a non-adventurous person stunted my spontaneity. So when I got divorced, I happily re-learned it and found the perfect long term but transitional relationship with a wild man who helped! Some good years back in my forties! And some excellent years with this husband who has been game about my schemes to have fun; but, sadly, he is losing the ability.

Permalink Reply by Wayne Goodwin on June 13, 2013 at 6:42pm

I like that word "Schemes" ......

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