For Discusion

[Wayne Goodwin]

U know I have been sitting here thinking..Why is it..When once U Marry a Man..That he automaticly thinks that the Marriage Licence gives him Ownership of U...That he can beat U..Verbaly Abuse U..Humiliate U..And U R supposed to take it..WTH..I mean Really..Where in the Constitution does it say that..I always thought Marriage meant coming togather as a couple..Not as One..To say I am seeing the color red right now would be putting it mildly..U men who think like that..Grow up an Recognize..U R NOT GOD...

A friend of mine wrote this .

What ya Think ?

I know it goes both ways between Man & Woman ....

[flippr 2.0]

all my ex did was get drunk off her ass and swear at me.

[Lifesighs]

This is a sick relationship, not based on love or caring about each other at all. If a man feels like this or even hints at it he should be kicked to the curb at the first opportunity.

It sounds like two people with no self esteem trying to find some way to fit in and not succeeding. He needs someone to batter and bruise to make him feel strong or superior. She to be attracted to someone like that must feel worthless or not deserving of someone to love her.

[crestofwaves]

If I married a man who automaticaly thought he owned me and could abuse me, the marriage wouldn't last long. If a person has a healthy self-esteem, that person would NEVER allow abuse of any kind.

[Karin M Fichtner]

I have never had to deal with physical abuse; I wouldn't have tolerated it anyway.  I did, however, deal with mental and emotional abuse for a few years in my second marriage.  I divorced him because of it.  He did feel he owned me.  He often told people that, if he had his way, he'd build a house on top of a mountain.....surround it with barbed wire......and keep me in it. 

[flippr 2.0]

is that some scary kinda flattery?

[Karin M Fichtner]

I think it was kinda scary, yeah.