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Would you pay to cuttle (No Sex) ?

Maybe because ya don't get enough attention , loneliness ! I know i would ....

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Permalink Reply by Wayne Goodwin on February 9, 2014 at 8:03am

I myself have a need for closeness because growing up it just didn't happen .....

Permalink Reply by crestofwaves on February 9, 2014 at 8:22am

I don't like to cuddle when I sleep. I'm not a big cuddler. I like hugs, but then I'm like "Okay. Get off me now," like a cat.

Permalink Reply by carrie cavanaugh on February 9, 2014 at 9:15am

Not a big cuddler. Some people need it, I never felt the need. Maybe I get enough of it from my family .

Permalink Reply by Wayne Goodwin on February 9, 2014 at 11:56am

Yepp I did watch it . It's been over 30 years since I held a woman in my arms aand I miss it ...

Permalink Reply by Karin M Fichtner on February 9, 2014 at 9:59am

I am a cuddler. I love to snuggle under a blanket with my sweetie (back when) and watch a movie on tv. Or after a little extra-curricular bedtime activity, it's nice to just stay in each other's arms for a little bit. But when it's time to go to sleep, I will roll over on my side of the bed. I like to "spoon" for a little while, though. Sometimes we would fall asleep with him wrapped around me....and somewhere in the night, we'd turn around, and I would wrap around him. As time went on, however, my left hip started to give me problems when I would lie on it for more than an hour, and I was unable to wrap around him for too long. I think he resented that; I will always feel bad about that. I tend to be cold when I'm really tired, and it's nice to snuggle up to get warm.

Permalink Reply by Wayne Goodwin on February 9, 2014 at 11:59am

I remember back when I was with my first girl friend . She would put curlers in her hair and I can still imaging how they felt on my chest and arms ...What days they were ...

Permalink Reply by blithe spirit on February 9, 2014 at 1:59pm

I'm quite touchy feely, so snuggles and cuddles are always good...I can't imagine paying someone to do that..to me seems to a bit too intimate to share with a stranger or someone you don't really have a rapport with.

Permalink Reply by crestofwaves on February 9, 2014 at 2:08pm

You know what? Even when I was wildly in love, I didn't like his even sleeping in bed with me. And I didn't cuddle with him, except for after sex--but even then it wasn't cuddling, it was hanging around talking and talking and eating and talking and drinking wine and talking some more which, of course, led to more sex, but very little actual cuddling.

I have to say I am NOT a cuddler, for sure. I think talking is my cuddling.

Permalink Reply by Lifesighs on February 9, 2014 at 2:41pm

I like to cuddle for a while until I fall asleep then I need my space to turn around and stretch my legs. I've always liked to snuggle on the sofa however we seem to have drifted into using recliners so not much snuggling going on.

Permalink Reply by frenchy on February 9, 2014 at 2:49pm

well i'm a cuddler and if that was a profession i might be able to do it .. i love the talkin too cause after all how do you know anything about someone if you never talk ..so i can do that for hours too .. but sometimes just holdin someone for what seems like an eternity and feelin them holdin you back is worth more than money can put a price on .. of course thats all dependent upon whom you're holdin at the time .. i think for me to wanna cuddle with someone that long i'd probably wanna talk to em a lot too .. and of course a bunch of sex .. and maybe some lookin in each others eyes ..

Permalink Reply by frenchy on February 9, 2014 at 3:04pm

lol.. well as much as i like sex .. i'd rather not .. not that i'm a prude cause i'm really not .. you'd be surprised some of the things i've done .. but for the most part i don't wanna hump every girls leg who comes down my street .. back in the early 80's i had a good friend who worked for a place in van nuys called diverse industries which was a warehouse of porn .. and he said he could easily get me into the porn biz if i wanted to .. but i declined.. it was tempting too .. he took me down to swedish erotica .. what a place they had .. in the lobby they had this big pond filled with koi fish .. and they would swim right up to you .. it was impressive .. and this was all before the big aids scare .. i'll just say i said no .. i'm not admitin to anything else ..

Permalink Reply by T2Friends on February 9, 2014 at 4:15pm

I don't want to cuddle with just anyone. And the other person I am cuddling with has to like it too. Otherwise, why bother. So I guess I am a picky cuddler LOL. To me, cuddling is a great ending to something or a great beginning.

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