Your S/O is smaller then you. He or She has cheated and its a first time. How do you handle it?

[jan]

If we have been large all our lives, we have certain feelings. A woman that has given birth sometimes gains weight and can't lose it. And as we get older, gaining a few pounds is harder to take off. And some have a glandular problem to cause us to be larger. Now your S/O has had an affar, maybe a one night stand, or it has gone on a little while. You find out, or he comes to you and admits it. How do you handle this?

[reggie]

just live your life,life goes on

[lynn]

can't see that it matters what size i am, cheating is cheating....

[Cinnamon]

I agree lynn, cheating is not right in any situation. I've seen where a man (and a couple women) in a relationship with a sick one, knowing that person is terminal, go out and mess around. They can't even wait a couple months or so.