I wanna get into your pants

[HAVE_A_HEART]

Ladies--If a man is indicating that he wants to get sexually involved with you---do u more often believe that person is expressing an urge to really be with u--or just an urge to take care of an urge? How do you analyze the difference between the two?

[lynn]

good question, HAH.
what matters more is how i feel about the man, and whether i know him well enuf to trust him to treat me respectfully. it that's not the case, his motives make no difference, i'll protect myself instead. if i trust enuf to consider sexual activity, then i know him well enuf to ask his motives!