BrenS

Female

Charlotte, NC

United States

Profile Information:

Relationship Status:: Single
About Me:: I am at a point in my life where TBD seems a perfect description. I married when I was quite young and had almost 19 years of marriage to a wonderful man before he was killed in a car accident about 6 years ago. My life since then has included many transitions, including my son leaving home (and becoming a father to my beautiful grand-daughter!), my older daughter starting college, my younger daughter becoming a high-schooler who is driving and dating, going back to work, entering the dating world myself, etc. I am looking forward to this stage of my life---finding fulfilling work, supporting my children as they leave the nest, hopefully finding another love of my life, and just figuring out what is yet to be!

PS. In the 10 months or so since I wrote the above, my life has taken yet another turn. I met a great man (here on TBD). We had been together for 6 months when he died unexpectedly a few months ago. I find myself wondering now what this stage of my life is supposed to be.

Comment Wall:

Bonez

You're a beautiful woman, Bren... I am sure life has many great surprises yet in store for you.

Jul 1, 2009
Keith McLaren

Bren,
I have to agree with the two wisemen who wrote before me. Life can bring us all sorts of things, feelings, twists, and turns. Some of these are good, while some of these are not so good. While we have to "feel" today, we have to "hope" for all those tomorrows that will be so wonderful that we just won't be able to understand what really got us there. My best to you; you seem like a very nice person. I will end by telling you what I used to tell my late wife, my best friend fo 23 1/2 years - Have the Best Day that you can!

Jul 1, 2009
Ralph

glad you liked the photos will be adding more soon. glad to have you as a friend on T.B.D.

Jul 2, 2009
Ralph

Hi Bren liked your photos keep taking them Photography is a great hobby and it is a great way to keep yourself busy in an artistic way .

Jul 2, 2009
Keith McLaren

Hi Bren,
thanks for the kinds words. If I had to pay as hi a price as you have I am not so sure I could be as grounded as I seem to believe you are. You are a good friend! Know that you can use my words anytime you feel the need. I pray you had that "best day" and will continue to have them each and every day. If there is ever anything I can do to help/assist with that goal, you only have to 'hint' and I will oblige your wish! Please let's stay in touch. My best to/for you always!..

Jul 3, 2009
Naidre ~ Wild Tide

Thank you!! Hi Bren nice to meet you! Wow great pictures!

Jul 3, 2009
Yoodle

Hi Bren! N. C. has lovely sunsets! Youve got a great bio--with so many changes, I'm sending a prayer out for you! And I've got to create an album like that! Fun!
Jenelle

Jul 3, 2009
unixkid

Thanks Brenda, You have a good weekend too.. :)

Jul 3, 2009
Bob C.

Well, I tried to get into Carolina but got turned down (out of state)... I'm one of the FEW dark blue ones that also likes the lighter shade... LOL

Bob xo

Jul 5, 2009
Eric Grabowski

Thanks!! Apron was a gift since I do all the cooking ;-P

Jul 7, 2009
mywrite04

Some amazing photos...are you "eye" behind the camera? If so, bravo! I'm David, btw...nice to e-meet you. (Also, your smile -- WOW!)

Jul 10, 2009
MikeMoff

I have lived here for 7 years and it has grown like crazy this conty was the 3rd fastest growong in the nation in 2007. It is still pretty rural though and a reat place to live! It sounds like you have ssn alot of tragedy and I am so sorry for you but yuo seem to have a good attitude about the good things in your life and that is good! Keep in touch.

Jul 12, 2009
Eric Grabowski

LOL thanks .. if you couldnt read what the apron says its "Jessica's Boy Toy" LOL

Jul 17, 2009
EFRAIN ROMAN

You look beautiful,loos strong.God Bless. LOVE

Jul 17, 2009
Eric

Hi Brenda, How are things? It doesn't seem like July here.

Jul 21, 2009
ernest camel

hi brenda its good to have you for a friend you have a good nite and a great day tomorow

Jul 22, 2009
ernest camel

hi brenda i am very sorry for your loss ,if you need somone to talk to i'm here for you ,thats what friends do

Jul 22, 2009
candelariadelsol

thank you Bren's it is good to have a friend that appreciate my art..have a wonderful evening..
Candela

Jul 22, 2009
Michael D

Thanks...your pictures say you enjoy life...reflect a happy family...did you come from a large family? I was the oldest of 9 children...the only one that could ever say that I was an only child.

Jul 23, 2009
Mark

Bren, I love you photos. Hope you had a great weekend.

Aug 2, 2009
Same Ol' Randy

Hi Brenda, so nice to hear from you. Still hot here ... heh. Those are my bookshelves on my page ... can you guess what sport I played? Have a fantastic weekend, talk to you soon.

Aug 6, 2009
Mark

Aug 20, 2009
Nothing like being a month and a half in responding!!! Sheesh! I honestly didn't see you message. Thanks for the birthday wishes. Again, sorry for my non-responsiveness.

Oct 1, 2009
Aggie

Just because

Oct 21, 2009
Ibrahim Eldesouky

Happy birthday

Dec 8, 2009
Aggie

Dec 8, 2009
Bob C.

Dec 8, 2009
Ralph

Happy Birthday BrenS , I just read your profile update , hope you are well and enjoying this special time of the year with your loved ones .

Ralph

Dec 9, 2009
Ladyg

Dec 9, 2009
Ladyg

Red Ribbon

Dec 9, 2009
Ibrahim Eldesouky

Red Ribbon

Feb 14, 2010
Ladyg

Dec 9, 2010
Aggie

Happy Birthday!

Dec 9, 2010
sfo_eric

Hello,

I sent you a friend request. Hope you'll accept!

Eric

Dec 10, 2010
sfo_eric

Say, you had a photo of you after doing a 50 mile walk in 3 days back in 2006. Were you doing the Komen 3 Day for the Cure? I'm a Crew volunteer on that event and have been doing so since 2004.

Dec 10, 2010
Aggie

Happy Birthday!

Dec 9, 2011
Aggie

Happy Birthday!

Dec 9, 2015
Aggie

Happy Birthday!

Dec 9, 2018
Aggie

Happy Birthday!

Dec 9, 2019
Aggie

Happy Birthday!

Dec 9, 2020