Sorry, I must have slept thru it like the great earthquake of 1979. While in Mexico City in 1979 with 43 other Aggies I slept thru the earthquake. My sincere apologies, I need to pay more attention to women.
General: ENFPs are both "idea"-people and "people"-people, who see everyone and everything as part of an often bizarre cosmic whole. They want to both help (at least, their own definition of "help") and be liked and admired by other people, on bo th an individual and a humanitarian level. They are interested in new ideas on principle, but ultimately discard most of them for one reason or another.
Social/Personal Relationships: ENFPs have a great deal of zany charm, which can ingratiate them to the more stodgy types in spite of their unconventionality. They are outgoing, fun, and genuinely like people. As SOs/mates they are warm, affectionate (l ots of PDA), and disconcertingly spontaneous. However, attention span in relationships can be short; ENFPs are easily intrigued and distracted by new friends and acquaintances, forgetting about the older ones for long stretches at a time. Less mature ENFPs may need to feel they are the center of attention all the time, to reassure them that everyone thinks they're a wonderful and fascinating person.
ENFPs often have strong, if unconventional, convictions on various issues related to their Cosmic View. They usually try to use their social skills and contacts to persuade people gently of the rightness of these views.
Work Environment: ENFPs are pleasant, easygoing, and usually fun to work with. They come up with great ideas, and are a major asset in brainstorming sessions. Follow through tends to be a problem, however; they tend to get bored quickly, especially if a newer, more interesting project comes along. They tend to be procrastinators, both about meeting deadlines and about performing any small, uninteresting tasks that they've been assigned. ENFPs are at their most useful when working in a group with a J or two to take up the slack.
Awesome, now I've got two friends in one. I'm an INTJ. But check out http://www.socionics.com/rel/rel.htm. An ENTP and INTJ have a "relationship of supervision," where you would be the supervisee and I would be the supervisor. I was madly in love with an ENFP for six years, and by the end of that time I was frustrated with her and she resented me. I recommend that you find a "relationship of duality" with an ISTP. "These relations are the most favourable and comfortable of all intertype relationsproviding complete psychological compatibility." My duality partner would be an ESFJ, and I actually dated a Filippina ESFJ here in Juneau last year. It was comfortable, but other factors made me back away.
Right by your side again! All is (almost) right with the world . . .oh. Okay - maybe not, but you're still here!!! It seems strange when one can SEE the profile, but you can't access it. Perhaps it had too many widgets or whatnot in it? Is that possible? WHY? The inquiring mind wants to know! *Stamps wee foot in exasperation for you ! *
Sweetie! It's you? What are you doing with another profile? This is very confusing because the other one seems all grown up and fine?!? Are we friending here too or is this temporary? Colour me confused and send me a missive please! Look how cute you were ;)
OMG, you're an ENFP? The only women I have ever fallen head over heels in love with are ENFPs. But talk about incompatible! I think we have demonstrated the incompatibility factor, haven't we, Maricel?