Me. Married. Mother. TBD-er, Twitter Tweeter & FB-er from Missouri. I am a torchlighter for the United Way, also a board member with the Lupus Foundation, Heartland Chapter. Married for 29 years to Mark, a creative director, graced with an abundance of Irish charm. My daughter, Lauren, is a beautiful, wise, old soul. My bright, blogger son, Jason, and innovative daughter(-in-law), Amanda, recently celebrated their very 1st anniversary in Chicago, where they are building a life together. Two cats, Asher & Cinderella (because they look like they sleep in a fireplace), also make up our home, along with my very lovable service dog, Elliot, a yellow lab. I have lupus and he helps me in many ways. His very favorite job is to remind me I cannot sing, and should never try inside the car. ___________________________________________________________________ "This Is What Lupus Looks Like" video by L.A. Lupus Lady (submitted by Lynda Michelson & Elliot) by Lynda Michelson on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 at 7:01pm Recently a Facebook-Twitter friend contacted me about participating in a lupus video she was putting together. I was honored to be asked, and sent her the requested pictures of myself with my service dog, Elliot. Please enjoy the video and pass it along to your friends. Thank you, Lynda & Elliot P.S. Here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PX0vS45ntsg by Amanda @LALupusLady on Twitter and L.A. Lupus Lady on Facebook
Thanks. I had no idea I was featured.. I don't get on here much lately; I've been extremely busy. Things are starting to lighten up, so I'll be around more often.
I learned gradually that expressing myself and telling my story gave me such a relief inside...I cannot explain the freedom I felt after letting out my story. It is like a flood that washes away all the fear and horror once the words were written.
I suffered hatred and bitterness and anger towards my abusers and I would wake up in the middle of the night from nightmares or constantly thinking about the things I should have said or the things I should have done and I felt trapped. I was physically free from them but they still held me captive within my mind and my heart.
Once I released my stories and read the words of my abuse I was finally free of the nightmares. I am free from the haunting horrors and I now laugh and smile and enjoy life knowing that I am a worthy person and beautiful within. I no longer believe the lies that were pounded into my head and I have become a stronger person, one who wishes to reach out to others to help free them from their abusers.
I stand strong, come stand with me Lynda...you cannot imagine the feeling of flying high above it all like an Eagle that leaves all the naysayers below in the clouds.
Hey Lynda,been busy,I get on for a couple of minutes when I take breaks.The boys in my photos are my 2 nephews.I get them 2-3 times a month and we go do guy stuff.I'll try to get some pics of my boys.I've been going to Greg's from time to time.I hope it takes off for him.
I think you're really on to something there Lynda, I really do. However, Ican't promise that Cerridwyn (Siamese cat) will behave around your dog, so I may have to banish her to her carrier if she refuses to behave.
I've had a "Duh..." moment. If I'd taken the time to read first, I would have figured out that "your dog" is actually Elliott. I'm sure he much prefers that to "your dog." :)
Hi, Lynda,
Hope your weekend is going well. Had sunset with friends, now back home with children, to spend the rest of the saturday night. It's lovely outside, not so hot as usual, with a nice breeze.
One of these days I'll get a piture of me and my two dogs and sent to you!
Hugs,
Karla
Hi Lynda! Gregg asked me to tell you that he misses you. He doesn't have access to a computer at this time. But he was thinking of you. He asked me to let you know.
Talk to ya later! Hugs!!
What a wonderful video gift Lynda. Thankyou for sharing this. Brings joy and practicality to the hearts & minds of many. The gifts if giving, recieving and reciprocating, appreciating & valuing are so uplifting, inspiring & reenforcing. Nieghbors for Neighbors, & Neighborhoods.
You are cracking me up and I am not sure if this is good for my health?? Lynda you are a special light in my life and I believe in the lives of others....Go Girl
Lynda, thank you for the flowers1
Hope you are doing well, and have a lovely day too!
A big hug for your lab!
Mine (he's almost 11 years-old) was a little scared of the thunder last night, and came to sleep by my side of the bed, just in case...
Hugs,
Karla
Lynda, thank you for the lovely flowers and the good wish. I don't know how to upload things yet, or I would send you something beautiful back. Just please know it meant a lot to me that you thought of me. Love, Raelein
Thanks so much Lynda, Let's dance, laugh and refresh our spirits. Life is a good thing and for every minute of mine I am grateful...I am also grateful for friends like you. Hugs Lady, Now let's go dance....Kick it up..T
I have to laugh Lynda. No matter what comes against us in this life, somehow we are the ones who manage to keep going, keep caring, keep hiking up the hills and coming through the valleys...To me, for me, It says INDEED I AM A Victorious Human being, Go ahead world, Hit me with you best shot!
Yes...Unity & Peace Always The Key My Dear Dear Friend!! Yes, all is in order. Will catch up more this week, phone down. U kiss UR Elliot 4 me (Ya Meg wanna B...ROLFLMAO), Kt ;)
How's everything up in St. Louis? I was just up there in June visiting the family -- Left 103 degree San Antonio and got to St. Louis on the hottest day of the year (June 26, but did manage to suffer through a Cardinal game without getting too sundburned (they beat the Minnesota Twins and Albert hit two home runs).
Where in St. Louis are you and how come you let your kids go to KU (just kidding, but as Mizzou grad, I'm required to say that)
We try to get up at least twice a year. My mother (now 88) lives out in Crestwood and my middle brother and his family live out in Manchester. The rest of us are kinda scattered. Air Force brought me to San Antonio and I just sorta stayed.
There are so many favorites that it's hard to think of them all right now. I can tell you that since we don't have Steak 'n Shake here, the first place we hit when heading to St. Louis is the Steak 'n Shake in Joplin (no matter what time of the day it is...). And we always try to visit Ted Drewes at least once when we're in town. I'll have to think about other places we go...
Next time I'm headed that way, I will let you know and I'd love to meet at S'n S (unless you were wanting to meet my brother at S 'n S ) If you dare trust me with your regular e-mail, I can give you a place of honor in my address book then when I need to warn you that I'm headed your way, I can use that instead of TBD (but I understand if you're hesitant about giving out your e-mail). My e-mail (in case you're ever headed this way) is arkadash@satx.rr.com
Say...Looks like u captured a pict of my beautiful hood here sista! I love it, Thank you L!! Still have much catchin up 2 do. So much I want to read & reply. I miss u! But still think re L & L each day! Say... Are we allowed to pray for computers to be fixed???... Love u lots! Everyday, Kt & Harley D! :)
Keith McLaren
HaGD..
Jul 25, 2009
Tina
Everybody needs a hug, no matter how different we are uniquely the same!
Jul 25, 2009
Quilty
Jul 27, 2009
Aggie
Aggie hug!
Jul 27, 2009
Lori Lamberski
I suffered hatred and bitterness and anger towards my abusers and I would wake up in the middle of the night from nightmares or constantly thinking about the things I should have said or the things I should have done and I felt trapped. I was physically free from them but they still held me captive within my mind and my heart.
Once I released my stories and read the words of my abuse I was finally free of the nightmares. I am free from the haunting horrors and I now laugh and smile and enjoy life knowing that I am a worthy person and beautiful within. I no longer believe the lies that were pounded into my head and I have become a stronger person, one who wishes to reach out to others to help free them from their abusers.
I stand strong, come stand with me Lynda...you cannot imagine the feeling of flying high above it all like an Eagle that leaves all the naysayers below in the clouds.
Jul 28, 2009
BILL KELLEY
Jul 29, 2009
Rhiannnonn
Jul 30, 2009
Rhiannnonn
Jul 30, 2009
Darkhairblueeyes
Jul 30, 2009
Darkhairblueeyes
Jul 31, 2009
Karla KC
Hope your weekend is going well. Had sunset with friends, now back home with children, to spend the rest of the saturday night. It's lovely outside, not so hot as usual, with a nice breeze.
One of these days I'll get a piture of me and my two dogs and sent to you!
Hugs,
Karla
Aug 1, 2009
Christopher K. Carlson
Aug 5, 2009
Mark Mentzer
Aug 6, 2009
Rita D
Talk to ya later! Hugs!!
Aug 14, 2009
Rita D
Aug 17, 2009
Dakota Blue
Aug 18, 2009
Tina

Many blessings, love and light to you Lynda, TAug 19, 2009
Tina
Aug 21, 2009
Tina
Aug 24, 2009
Tina
You are cracking me up and I am not sure if this is good for my health?? Lynda you are a special light in my life and I believe in the lives of others....Go Girl
Aug 24, 2009
Karla KC
Hope you are doing well, and have a lovely day too!
A big hug for your lab!
Mine (he's almost 11 years-old) was a little scared of the thunder last night, and came to sleep by my side of the bed, just in case...
Hugs,
Karla
Aug 25, 2009
Tina
Aug 25, 2009
Maricel Evasco
Aug 25, 2009
Tina
Aug 25, 2009
Tina
Something beautiful to help us to find and to hold "CENTER"...We can do this Lynda, all of us...Hugs T
Aug 26, 2009
Raelein MB Haley
Aug 28, 2009
Tina
Thanks so much Lynda, Let's dance, laugh and refresh our spirits. Life is a good thing and for every minute of mine I am grateful...I am also grateful for friends like you. Hugs Lady, Now let's go dance....Kick it up..T
Aug 28, 2009
Tina
In you, on you, all around you, may you find Peace Lynda, Blessings and hugs, T
Aug 29, 2009
Tina
Aug 30, 2009
Tina
Aug 31, 2009
Sunday Driver
Have a wonderful day!
Aug 31, 2009
John Turberville
Aug 31, 2009
Tina

I have to laugh Lynda. No matter what comes against us in this life, somehow we are the ones who manage to keep going, keep caring, keep hiking up the hills and coming through the valleys...To me, for me, It says INDEED I AM A Victorious Human being, Go ahead world, Hit me with you best shot!Aug 31, 2009
Dakota Blue
Aug 31, 2009
Christopher K. Carlson
Aug 31, 2009
Kennedy Parker

Lynda...what a gracious spirit you have...God Bless...KennedyAug 31, 2009
Arkadash
How's everything up in St. Louis? I was just up there in June visiting the family -- Left 103 degree San Antonio and got to St. Louis on the hottest day of the year (June 26, but did manage to suffer through a Cardinal game without getting too sundburned (they beat the Minnesota Twins and Albert hit two home runs).
Where in St. Louis are you and how come you let your kids go to KU (just kidding, but as Mizzou grad, I'm required to say that)
Thanks again for the frog! I'm all croaked up
Steve
Aug 31, 2009
Dazzling Zoomer Gal Diana
Aug 31, 2009
Dazzling Zoomer Gal Diana
Aug 31, 2009
Mark
Comments and Graphics
Aug 31, 2009
Tina
Aug 31, 2009
Arkadash
There are so many favorites that it's hard to think of them all right now. I can tell you that since we don't have Steak 'n Shake here, the first place we hit when heading to St. Louis is the Steak 'n Shake in Joplin (no matter what time of the day it is...). And we always try to visit Ted Drewes at least once when we're in town. I'll have to think about other places we go...
Well, gotta run to work (darn it)
Hasta
Steve
Sep 1, 2009
Bill Freimuth
Sep 1, 2009
Tina
Sep 1, 2009
Aggie
Aggie hug!
Sep 1, 2009
Arkadash
Next time I'm headed that way, I will let you know and I'd love to meet at S'n S (unless you were wanting to meet my brother at S 'n S ) If you dare trust me with your regular e-mail, I can give you a place of honor in my address book then when I need to warn you that I'm headed your way, I can use that instead of TBD (but I understand if you're hesitant about giving out your e-mail). My e-mail (in case you're ever headed this way) is arkadash@satx.rr.com
Hasta,
Steve
Sep 1, 2009
Tina
Hugs, love, blessings, T
Sep 4, 2009
Dakota Blue
Sep 5, 2009
Karla KC
How have you been?
It was a beautiful picture you sent me!
Hope you and your beautiful family, including your Lab, are doing well.
Hugs,
Karla
Sep 5, 2009
Chez moi
In a friend and on the earth
Treasure in my heart
Sep 5, 2009