I have quite a list of "just one things" I'd like say, but I'd have to start with my paternal grandmum. And I'd say "Thank you." She was a warm, kind, wise woman who taught me things that have sustained me over the years. And she raised my remarkable father. I lost her when I was 10, and, to this day, I feel, not her presence, but her spirit. If that makes any sense.
I love Fred Wilhelms, for his tireless efforts to get SoundExchange to do what they say they do (but don't)--and for this...which I would like to address to my ex: "I’m really not interested in trading comments that don’t address what the other person says. Simply talking in my presence isn’t a dialog."
This to my ex: "You were wrong. On all counts, which is why you lost me. You accused me unjustly."
This to my late father. " I forgive you a thousand times over." (I am certain he knows this - but just in case;)
This to my late mum: " You were right Sweetheart, as usual!" (I am certain she knows this - but just in case!)
You are not limited ever in anything by anyone Spellbound - so don't hesitate to shout STOP to whomever it is that needs to be drawn up hard their tracks - esp. if whomever it is is riding roughshod 'or you, or anyone you love.