Starting over - TBD2024-03-29T15:14:44Zhttps://teebeedee.ning.com/forum/topics/starting-over?commentId=1991841%3AComment%3A114281&feed=yes&xn_auth=noThat's cause your'e one of th…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2011-07-19:1991841:Comment:12358932011-07-19T03:09:18.628ZTeeBubbaDeehttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/TeeBubbaDee
That's cause your'e one of the good guys.
That's cause your'e one of the good guys. Last time I contacted Mrazz s…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2011-07-19:1991841:Comment:12362672011-07-19T02:10:37.218ZAggiehttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Aggie
Last time I contacted Mrazz she was doing much better. I still contact her during some holidays.
Last time I contacted Mrazz she was doing much better. I still contact her during some holidays. I wonder if you (mrazz) had a…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2011-07-19:1991841:Comment:12357872011-07-19T01:58:36.786ZMaricel Evascohttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/MaricelEvasco
<p>I wonder if you (<a href="../../profile/MicheleRasbeary">mrazz) had any successes in starting over.</a></p>
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<p>The posts here are exactly 2 yrs ago.</p>
<p>I wonder if you (<a href="../../profile/MicheleRasbeary">mrazz) had any successes in starting over.</a></p>
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<p>The posts here are exactly 2 yrs ago.</p> You are all so sweet. No the…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-18:1991841:Comment:1156882009-07-18T01:42:51.233Zmrazzhttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/MicheleRasbeary
You are all so sweet. No the picture on here with me is my 18 year old son. I do still have a picture of Joe at work and I have his pictures on the mantle along with the flag presented to me at his funeral but when my son leaves for college in a month or so...I am going to do some changing things. My computer desk will be moved into a room and it will become my son's room when he is home but Joe's stuff will be put in there in a way that I do still pay respect to him and my life but at the same…
You are all so sweet. No the picture on here with me is my 18 year old son. I do still have a picture of Joe at work and I have his pictures on the mantle along with the flag presented to me at his funeral but when my son leaves for college in a month or so...I am going to do some changing things. My computer desk will be moved into a room and it will become my son's room when he is home but Joe's stuff will be put in there in a way that I do still pay respect to him and my life but at the same token I'm able to move forward. My picture frame at work no longer displays him continuously like it use too. I have started looking forward to the next chapter of my life. You know I guess in a way SeaRain I haven't had the guys just wanting sex. Maybe it is because I have more respect for myself and they know it.<br />
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I'm not looking.....when it is meant to be it will be....but right now...I'm just looking forward to the future.<br />
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Thanks Aggie...we need all the prayers we can get! Howdy, Mrazz you have come a…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-18:1991841:Comment:1151252009-07-18T00:14:40.730ZAggiehttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Aggie
Howdy, Mrazz you have come a long way since joining TBD. I know you will find happiness some day. You have good head on your shoulder. You have two great kids and other friends that support you. I have had you as well as others in my prayers for a long time. You will find your bestfriend again someday and start another chapter in life.<br />
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Aggie…
Howdy, Mrazz you have come a long way since joining TBD. I know you will find happiness some day. You have good head on your shoulder. You have two great kids and other friends that support you. I have had you as well as others in my prayers for a long time. You will find your bestfriend again someday and start another chapter in life.<br />
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Aggie hug! mrazz, my dear, I'd like to s…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-17:1991841:Comment:1142812009-07-17T22:26:41.213ZSeaRainhttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/SusanMWard
mrazz, my dear, I'd like to suggest that if your late Joe is in the TBD picture with you, please change it. There comes a time when you have to let go of him and move on. Do it slowly. Dropping his picture here might be a start. Removing his picture at work could be your next goal. Move his picture from the living spaces of your home to the kids' bedrooms', so they can remember their dad, and maybe one picture in your room. This is done over a period of time.<br />
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Next, don't look for anyone. Don't…
mrazz, my dear, I'd like to suggest that if your late Joe is in the TBD picture with you, please change it. There comes a time when you have to let go of him and move on. Do it slowly. Dropping his picture here might be a start. Removing his picture at work could be your next goal. Move his picture from the living spaces of your home to the kids' bedrooms', so they can remember their dad, and maybe one picture in your room. This is done over a period of time.<br />
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Next, don't look for anyone. Don't join dating sites. If it is true that your children's happiness is your first concern, changing your social life will not help them, I know you are alone and probably lonely now, but I would like you to know that when you are no longer lonely is the time to reenter the social life.<br />
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A lot of guys - when they hear you are a widow, will think "oh, no sex lately, I'll have to help her with that."<br />
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Trust me, they are jerks. No more, no less. May God fill your heart with…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-17:1991841:Comment:1127392009-07-17T16:52:56.486ZDeb Hursahttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/DebHursa
May God fill your heart with peace! I give you my peace and my heart goes out to you. May all things be for you highest good. in love and light, Deb
May God fill your heart with peace! I give you my peace and my heart goes out to you. May all things be for you highest good. in love and light, Deb It is always hard to start ov…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-17:1991841:Comment:1115142009-07-17T12:02:21.477Zmrazzhttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/MicheleRasbeary
It is always hard to start over when your world was totally changed forever and not by your choice. I'm not in any hurry. My kids and their happiness is the most important thing. When it happens it will happen. I know God taking Joe from me that he has someone out there for me. So I will take it a day at a time...and concentrate on making sure that my kids happiness is the most important.<br />
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The slow thing....oh yeah. It is funny to me that being a widow makes some guys think I'm also desperate.…
It is always hard to start over when your world was totally changed forever and not by your choice. I'm not in any hurry. My kids and their happiness is the most important thing. When it happens it will happen. I know God taking Joe from me that he has someone out there for me. So I will take it a day at a time...and concentrate on making sure that my kids happiness is the most important.<br />
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The slow thing....oh yeah. It is funny to me that being a widow makes some guys think I'm also desperate. One guy that I talked to acted like......yeah you guessed it we were a couple. WE HADN'T EVEN GONE OUT!!!!!!! Another guy....left a voice mail on my cell because I didn't immediately return his call...."well I guess you don't want to meet....etc..." He didn't realize that I was on the phone with someone that had not been at work in 3 weeks because her mom was in the hospital not doing good at all!....Yeah you guessed it...He said he was trying to be humorous but his voice mail was anything but humorous to me so yeah you guessed it....HISTORY!<br />
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Sometimes I wish people could walk in a widow/widower shoes and see how we truly feel. We had so much going for us in our married lives and in the blink of any eye things changed forever. We start over and honestly.....it is hard. The world has changed so much since we got married and the person we were then is not the same as we are now. In some sense we are better but at the same...we are lost.<br />
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When the time is right it will be..... Hey, I wish you the very best…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-17:1991841:Comment:1110292009-07-17T07:11:32.151ZTim Wathttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/TimWat
Hey, I wish you the very best. 1.5 after my divorce I'm fighting a similar kind of fight, I think. Starting over is an alien proposition to me too right now, but others who are further down this kind of road assure me it'll get better and just take it day by day.
Hey, I wish you the very best. 1.5 after my divorce I'm fighting a similar kind of fight, I think. Starting over is an alien proposition to me too right now, but others who are further down this kind of road assure me it'll get better and just take it day by day. Good luck with your new chapt…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-17:1991841:Comment:1110092009-07-17T06:54:08.335ZDarbyhttps://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/DARBY
Good luck with your new chapter may it be filled to the brim with laughter and happiness, take care
Good luck with your new chapter may it be filled to the brim with laughter and happiness, take care