Collen - I would like to welcome you to this group. Whatever state your life is in before, during or after the divorce; there are a lot of very good people to talk with on this site. There are social workers, teachers, lawyers and other professionals that have been through divorce personally or have had to deal with the issue's as part of their "caring" work with others. I am sure will find comfort, a listening ear, non-judgemental comments or advice and ecouragement from the people you meet here. Sincerely, Keith O.