Comments - To Know - TBD2024-03-29T09:12:06Zhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=1991841%3ABlogPost%3A44349&xn_auth=noI find it freeing and refresh…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-22:1991841:Comment:1389422009-07-22T01:33:25.325ZJMcAulhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/JMcAul
I find it freeing and refreshing to meet people and get to know them by their words, not by their appearance. I find that by masking my identity to an extent, I am also freed to be more open about things than I might be in person towards people I have to live among, work among and raise my children among.<br />
I think that getting to know a person online without fully experiencing their identity (at first in some cases) - we really delve into what is behind the masks we wear for protection in our…
I find it freeing and refreshing to meet people and get to know them by their words, not by their appearance. I find that by masking my identity to an extent, I am also freed to be more open about things than I might be in person towards people I have to live among, work among and raise my children among.<br />
I think that getting to know a person online without fully experiencing their identity (at first in some cases) - we really delve into what is behind the masks we wear for protection in our daily lives. The protection allowing us to be rather vanilla in our daily interactions. The online relationships become more an exploration of our fantasy identities. This all wreaks of intimacy.O…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-07-05:1991841:Comment:451252009-07-05T08:00:29.728ZLily Rothhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/LilyRoth
This all wreaks of intimacy.One has to decide how intimate they want to be with others here and in real life.<br />
If a deep intimacy in shared reality isn't important then yes I think someone can live with never knowing.The fabrication of another is enough.And going beyond that,maybe more importantly than it being enough,it's safe.If you never really know or have any proof as to the reality of another,they can remain safely who you want and or need them to be, in the symbiosis of the…
This all wreaks of intimacy.One has to decide how intimate they want to be with others here and in real life.<br />
If a deep intimacy in shared reality isn't important then yes I think someone can live with never knowing.The fabrication of another is enough.And going beyond that,maybe more importantly than it being enough,it's safe.If you never really know or have any proof as to the reality of another,they can remain safely who you want and or need them to be, in the symbiosis of the relationship.Sometimes that works best and fills a shared need between two people,however unhealthy or unrealistic it truly is.