As the day dawns to duskAnd the silence of the sunsetfalls over the landbehind the mountainsbehind the oceanI am alonein the silenceI am like the treethe tree of lifegrowing in a barren desertgrowing tall and wisewith the years of timeIn my magnificenceI feel the glory of timeI know the story of the agesI am strongMy roots are deep within the soilthat nourishes meThe very ground that nourishesgives to meas I give back to the earthThe silence of the nightmoves swiftly in timeto connect earth with heavensThe blanket of starscovering the skies isshining its glory on the tree of lifeThalia
Thallygal, thank you for your birthday and St Patty's day sentiments. They are appreciated as is the wisdom in your responses in my discussion group as well as many others. You're a great woman.
Hi there Thalia, I know it's been a wee while, but I hope to be able to
refresh my time here in TBD, (I have Broadband now), only thing is though,
I am developing a strange redness on my eyelids and copious numbers of
pinkish bags unda ma eyes! lol, but your page is wonderful here, with heaps
of incredible things to read, thanks - Hugzzz!
Good morning Thalia, I know I haven't been consistent with our connections
over time, but, inspite of this, I have always very much valued the times
we have shared with different things we post about.
So I am just wanting to let you know that in case this site, along with
many other ning sites does come to a close, and you would like to keep
in touch, then http://merrymeetwicca.ning.com/ is where I can be found,
even though I am still very busy being involved with both daughters
and their hectic lives they lead these days. I kind of act like my lollipop
has been whisked away from me when I cannot sit and do what I want
on my puter, LOL! Keep well and healthy my friend - Hugzzz!
It's ironic, Thally. I had checked on you earlier today. Then, just a few minutes ago, I visited the haiku group and responded to your heart-wrenching haiku. It seems you've had another loss. I'm so very sorry.
Then I went to my page and saw that you had written. To be in your thoughts means a lot to me--thank you.
Don't worry too much about being in "the distance," Thally. We all need closeness at times and solitude at times. And TBD is particularly tolerant of wanderers...
Happy Hogmanay, Thally! Looks like I'm the traditional "first foot" on your TBD page--sorry I don't have any coal. :>) But coal or no, I'm wishing you a good year with unexpected joys and possibilities. You deserve all good things.
I understand so well, Thally. I've been in much the same place you have. I suppose it's often a side effect of surviving into the--hahahah--"golden years," when so many of the people and abilities we love and treasure have drifted away on the mist.
Solitude and even loss have their place, but too much is just damned depressing.
So don't feel badly about "hibernating"-- a lot of us do it.
I envy and admire you, Thally, for downsizing. It's a freeing and often somewhat scary thing to do. I can only imagine the ups and downs.
I'm eager to sell my home, divest myself of 95% of my possessions, and build a little prefab "pod" with solar panels and an exterior that's impervious to anything but a direct hit by a nuclear warhead. :>) Unfortunately, our real estate prices haven't recovered enough yet.
I felt a flutter when you mentioned throwing out photo albums. You're so right, though, we carry the real memories in our hearts.
I hope you had a wonderful Easter too. I look forward to hearing about your adventure as it progresses.
It is wonderful to hear that your new home with it's breath of fresh energy has been a good thing! I love to move and have always found it a boost. And the paring down you did was sure to make room for new possibilities!
Your Thanksgiving sounded fabulous! There's nothing like a day filled with happiness, fellowship, gratitude, and sharing! That you served food at the Summit Center with your daughter had to have been a great shared experience. My family did such things on holidays, and so on. Helping makes special times rich and complete, don't you think?
I can't believe it's almost Christmas! I hope there are more joyful holiday times ahead for you. I'm not on TBD that much either, so if I don't see you--MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!
A guid New Year tae ane and a’, an mony may ye see!
HAPPY HOGMANAY!
Lang may yer lum reek! (Long may your chimney smoke.) It's a tradition in Scotland to take, among other items, a piece of coal with you when visiting friends and family on New Year's Eve. The coal is placed on the fire as a wish for the hosts’ long life, prosperity, warmth, and good cheer.
I have no coal, so here’s a wee dram of Scotch for its warming effect, and to convey the same wishes.
May 2015 bring you everything your heart desires, Thally.
Suzan (Dyslexic Dodger) told me the news about Aaron after she read it on Facebook, Thally. I'm so sorry for the ordeal he's going through, and you and the family as well, and I'm praying for you all as I type. I know, however, that Aaron's fabulous positive attitude, strength, and determination, backed up by the love, prayers, and support of friends and family, will go a long way toward healing him as well and as quickly as possible. I have absolute faith in that.
If you need a place to vent, just write--I understand so well how taxing keeping it together can be.
Tidal waves of love and prayers flowing constantly to Aaron and you. I'll get my friends on the prayer wave as well.
I'm so glad to hear Aaron's spirits are high in the face of the challenges ahead. Of course, as your son, I would expect that. I know you have all rallied around him and are there whenever he needs a hug or a laugh. That is so important.
Be sure to take care of yourself through this, thally. It's so easy to totally forget one's own needs.
My love and best wishes continue to flow your way. You're gonna need a storage room for them pretty soon! :>)
I'm so glad to hear that Aaron is holding up with good humor and high hopes, despite the pain and the long road ahead. I'm sorry he slept through your birthday visit, but I know he felt you there as he slumbered. Poor guy! It's really exhausting being ill and in pain.
I'm also relieved that you're so pleased with the nursing facility he's in--that personal care and concern will help his healing and get him ready for rehab. I'm praying for him every day.
I didn't know you were involved in AA. I've only attended 1 meeting, but have a long history with Alanon, and hold both organizations in high regard. Was the convention fun?
In contrast, a hip replacement does NOT sound fun--LOL--although you'll probably love the results. I agree wholeheartedly about the "golden years" being one big bunch of BS!!!!! I can't be quite as kind about it as you... :>)
I'll trade all the golden years for another crack at 22!
Hope you have something fun and frivolous planned for Independence Day. Whatever it is--stick a few sparklers in it.
HOOOOOOOOOOOORAAAAAYYYY!!! Working hips!!! That is a good gift!!
And the weeks of enforced rest sound like a good thing too, if they allow you to write and not feel guilty about taking the time. :>) I just reread "Save A Place For Me," and, once again, it brought tears to my eyes. Anyone who can capture the heart's yearning in words needs to write. That means you, thally.
I had always felt empathy for the lonely, the lost, and anyone struggling to walk through empty or dark places with grace. It wasn't until my son died, however, that I truly learned what it is like to be there. And, as we've said before, aging ain't no picnic. Your words are an oasis.
Have you gathered your poems together and published them, thally? What a blessing that would be for your children as years go on? If you haven't, I've used www.blurb.com to compile some of my fractured haiku for loved ones, and it's been a good experience with a great result. The software is free and relatively easy to use. And you can create as many or as few copies as you wish--there's no particular volume requirement. You might want to give it a try.
I'm so glad your Christmas was good and that everyone is doing well. I look forward to up-to-date pictures and news on Aaron's progress and all the rest when you have time after New Year's Day.
Seeing your words on my page made me happy. Your words always do!
I'm so glad to hear that Aaron continues to heal, and that the rest of your beautiful family is doing well, with many accomplishments of which to be proud. Cool that you're still working--keeping fully active is definitely one of the secrets to staying young.
Life here is much the same. I'm still kickin'. :>)
I'm sending my love to you and your family, dearest friend, and copious good vibes for a fabulous 2017!
Maricel Evasco
Mar 18, 2010
Tina
Mar 18, 2010
ozzieowl
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Hi there Thalia, I know it's been a wee while, but I hope to be able torefresh my time here in TBD, (I have Broadband now), only thing is though,
I am developing a strange redness on my eyelids and copious numbers of
pinkish bags unda ma eyes! lol, but your page is wonderful here, with heaps
of incredible things to read, thanks - Hugzzz!
Mar 18, 2010
Goldilocks46
Mar 19, 2010
Goldilocks46
Mar 20, 2010
Tina
Mar 25, 2010
Aggie
Happy Easter!
Apr 2, 2010
Tina
Apr 6, 2010
ozzieowl
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Good morning Thalia, I know I haven't been consistent with our connectionsover time, but, inspite of this, I have always very much valued the times
we have shared with different things we post about.
So I am just wanting to let you know that in case this site, along with
many other ning sites does come to a close, and you would like to keep
in touch, then http://merrymeetwicca.ning.com/ is where I can be found,
even though I am still very busy being involved with both daughters
and their hectic lives they lead these days. I kind of act like my lollipop
has been whisked away from me when I cannot sit and do what I want
on my puter, LOL! Keep well and healthy my friend - Hugzzz!
Apr 27, 2010
animak
May 3, 2010
Alex Alonso
May 9, 2010
Kittycat
May 12, 2010
Honey Holiday
May 18, 2010
Aggie
May 22, 2010
lynn
May 26, 2010
Aggie
Latest addition to the family, Bambi Aggie!
May 28, 2010
Aggie
Springtime on the farm in Texas!
Jun 1, 2010
Daddieo
Sep 25, 2010
Daddieo
Oct 2, 2010
Goldilocks46
Nov 23, 2010
Aggie
I hope you can find your turkey and share it with family and friends.
Nov 23, 2010
Aggie
Dec 25, 2010
Goldilocks46
Dec 30, 2010
Baia
Two out of three ain't bad!
Are you trying the new monthly pass? It comes with free etools. I'm going to use them this time.
Congratulations on the not smoking!
Love,
Baia
Jan 25, 2012
Angharad
So glad to see you here, Sweet One. You warm my heart. XOXOXOXOX
Dec 4, 2012
The Dyslexic Dodger
Oh thallygurl,,,
I was afriad that Id have to brave FB to find yuo! Yessss lets love the love lite shine.
yuor Dodger
Dec 9, 2012
Angharad
Here's hoping that 2013 brings you your heart's desire, Thally. XOXOX
Jan 1, 2013
Aggie
Feb 6, 2013
Angharad
Your haiku touched me, as they always do, Thally.
I'm alone as well. But like you, I'm celebrating with those I love even though they are no longer here in the flesh.
Hope for renewal indeed.
Love and hope never die, do they?
XOXOXOXOXOXOX
Mar 31, 2013
Angharad
Thinking of you.
Apr 30, 2013
Angharad
It's ironic, Thally. I had checked on you earlier today. Then, just a few minutes ago, I visited the haiku group and responded to your heart-wrenching haiku. It seems you've had another loss. I'm so very sorry.
Then I went to my page and saw that you had written. To be in your thoughts means a lot to me--thank you.
Don't worry too much about being in "the distance," Thally. We all need closeness at times and solitude at times. And TBD is particularly tolerant of wanderers...
Love to you and hope for happy days ahead.
XOXOXOX
Jul 26, 2013
Angharad
Nov 28, 2013
Angharad
the christmas star shines
a hush of angels draw near
whispering of hope
Dec 24, 2013
Angharad
XOXOXOXOXOX
Jan 1, 2014
Angharad
I understand so well, Thally. I've been in much the same place you have. I suppose it's often a side effect of surviving into the--hahahah--"golden years," when so many of the people and abilities we love and treasure have drifted away on the mist.
Solitude and even loss have their place, but too much is just damned depressing.
So don't feel badly about "hibernating"-- a lot of us do it.
I'm glad to see you whenever I see you.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX A.
Feb 2, 2014
Angharad
Mar 17, 2014
Angharad
Apr 20, 2014
Angharad
I envy and admire you, Thally, for downsizing. It's a freeing and often somewhat scary thing to do. I can only imagine the ups and downs.
I'm eager to sell my home, divest myself of 95% of my possessions, and build a little prefab "pod" with solar panels and an exterior that's impervious to anything but a direct hit by a nuclear warhead. :>) Unfortunately, our real estate prices haven't recovered enough yet.
I felt a flutter when you mentioned throwing out photo albums. You're so right, though, we carry the real memories in our hearts.
I hope you had a wonderful Easter too. I look forward to hearing about your adventure as it progresses.
XOXOXOXOX
May 1, 2014
Angharad
Hope you have a wonderful, sparkly, happy day, Thally! XOXOXOX
Jul 3, 2014
Angharad
I hope your day is beautiful and filled with love and peace, Thally.
A. XOXOXOXOX
Nov 27, 2014
Angharad
It is wonderful to hear that your new home with it's breath of fresh energy has been a good thing! I love to move and have always found it a boost. And the paring down you did was sure to make room for new possibilities!
Your Thanksgiving sounded fabulous! There's nothing like a day filled with happiness, fellowship, gratitude, and sharing! That you served food at the Summit Center with your daughter had to have been a great shared experience. My family did such things on holidays, and so on. Helping makes special times rich and complete, don't you think?
I can't believe it's almost Christmas! I hope there are more joyful holiday times ahead for you. I'm not on TBD that much either, so if I don't see you--MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!
Dec 22, 2014
Angharad
A guid New Year tae ane and a’, an mony may ye see!
HAPPY HOGMANAY!
Lang may yer lum reek! (Long may your chimney smoke.) It's a tradition in Scotland to take, among other items, a piece of coal with you when visiting friends and family on New Year's Eve. The coal is placed on the fire as a wish for the hosts’ long life, prosperity, warmth, and good cheer.
I have no coal, so here’s a wee dram of Scotch for its warming effect, and to convey the same wishes.
May 2015 bring you everything your heart desires, Thally.
A. xoxoxox
Dec 31, 2014
Angharad
Suzan (Dyslexic Dodger) told me the news about Aaron after she read it on Facebook, Thally. I'm so sorry for the ordeal he's going through, and you and the family as well, and I'm praying for you all as I type. I know, however, that Aaron's fabulous positive attitude, strength, and determination, backed up by the love, prayers, and support of friends and family, will go a long way toward healing him as well and as quickly as possible. I have absolute faith in that.
If you need a place to vent, just write--I understand so well how taxing keeping it together can be.
Tidal waves of love and prayers flowing constantly to Aaron and you. I'll get my friends on the prayer wave as well.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX A.
Jun 7, 2015
Angharad
I'm so glad to hear Aaron's spirits are high in the face of the challenges ahead. Of course, as your son, I would expect that. I know you have all rallied around him and are there whenever he needs a hug or a laugh. That is so important.
Be sure to take care of yourself through this, thally. It's so easy to totally forget one's own needs.
My love and best wishes continue to flow your way. You're gonna need a storage room for them pretty soon! :>)
XOXOXOXOXOX A.
Jun 29, 2015
Angharad
I'm also relieved that you're so pleased with the nursing facility he's in--that personal care and concern will help his healing and get him ready for rehab. I'm praying for him every day.
I didn't know you were involved in AA. I've only attended 1 meeting, but have a long history with Alanon, and hold both organizations in high regard. Was the convention fun?
In contrast, a hip replacement does NOT sound fun--LOL--although you'll probably love the results. I agree wholeheartedly about the "golden years" being one big bunch of BS!!!!! I can't be quite as kind about it as you... :>)
I'll trade all the golden years for another crack at 22!
Hope you have something fun and frivolous planned for Independence Day. Whatever it is--stick a few sparklers in it.
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOX me
Jul 4, 2015
Angharad
HOOOOOOOOOOOORAAAAAYYYY!!! Working hips!!! That is a good gift!!
And the weeks of enforced rest sound like a good thing too, if they allow you to write and not feel guilty about taking the time. :>) I just reread "Save A Place For Me," and, once again, it brought tears to my eyes. Anyone who can capture the heart's yearning in words needs to write. That means you, thally.
I had always felt empathy for the lonely, the lost, and anyone struggling to walk through empty or dark places with grace. It wasn't until my son died, however, that I truly learned what it is like to be there. And, as we've said before, aging ain't no picnic. Your words are an oasis.
Have you gathered your poems together and published them, thally? What a blessing that would be for your children as years go on? If you haven't, I've used www.blurb.com to compile some of my fractured haiku for loved ones, and it's been a good experience with a great result. The software is free and relatively easy to use. And you can create as many or as few copies as you wish--there's no particular volume requirement. You might want to give it a try.
I'm so glad your Christmas was good and that everyone is doing well. I look forward to up-to-date pictures and news on Aaron's progress and all the rest when you have time after New Year's Day.
Lots of love to you and yours, precious one.
A. XOXOXOXOXOX
Dec 27, 2015
Angharad
XOXOXOXOXOXOX me
Dec 31, 2015
Angharad
Happy New Year, Thally!
Seeing your words on my page made me happy. Your words always do!
I'm so glad to hear that Aaron continues to heal, and that the rest of your beautiful family is doing well, with many accomplishments of which to be proud. Cool that you're still working--keeping fully active is definitely one of the secrets to staying young.
Life here is much the same. I'm still kickin'. :>)
I'm sending my love to you and your family, dearest friend, and copious good vibes for a fabulous 2017!
A. XOXOXOXOXOX
Jan 1, 2017
Angharad
Wishes for love, joy, and renewal, Thally. ❤ ❤ ❤
Apr 1, 2018
Aggie
Aggie hug!
Sep 7, 2018