What is the hardest thing you've ever had to do? - TBD2024-03-28T20:35:13Zhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/forum/topics/what-is-the-hardest-thing?commentId=1991841%3AComment%3A555550&feed=yes&xn_auth=noGet a divorce. But anything w…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-14:1991841:Comment:5782632009-11-14T05:36:21.924ZBrendahttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Brenda
Get a divorce. But anything worth having is going to be challenging. It was worth having.<br />
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To you women who chose adoption, kudos my friends. This is the ultimate act of motherhood. You put the needs of that child before your own. My sis n law cannot have kids and was able to adopt a baby a year ago and it has been tremendously successful. A heroic act for sure.
Get a divorce. But anything worth having is going to be challenging. It was worth having.<br />
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To you women who chose adoption, kudos my friends. This is the ultimate act of motherhood. You put the needs of that child before your own. My sis n law cannot have kids and was able to adopt a baby a year ago and it has been tremendously successful. A heroic act for sure. Me too Kate.tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-07:1991841:Comment:5575502009-11-07T14:38:30.622Zlarry kremishttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/larrykremis
Me too Kate.
Me too Kate. I'm amazed at how brave peopl…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-07:1991841:Comment:5575392009-11-07T14:33:04.205Zkainsworthhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/kainsworth
I'm amazed at how brave people are here. Thank you.
I'm amazed at how brave people are here. Thank you. My oldest son was diagnoised…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-07:1991841:Comment:5560632009-11-07T01:35:15.698ZJanice71dghttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/JaniceHarris
My oldest son was diagnoised with CF at 1 year of age . For the next 3 1/2 years I watched him slowly die every day , knowing nothing I nor medical science could do would save him . Not a day passed that I did not pray for a miracle , from God or science . I never gave up hope until the moment he passed while in my arms . That was 35 years ago and I still cry for him . I learned to never not tell someone you love that you do love them as you'll never know if they'll be gone from you in a moment…
My oldest son was diagnoised with CF at 1 year of age . For the next 3 1/2 years I watched him slowly die every day , knowing nothing I nor medical science could do would save him . Not a day passed that I did not pray for a miracle , from God or science . I never gave up hope until the moment he passed while in my arms . That was 35 years ago and I still cry for him . I learned to never not tell someone you love that you do love them as you'll never know if they'll be gone from you in a moment . I have learned patience as well . Some things can not be rushed . Hope still lives strong in me . I am much kinder for having lost my child but less tolerant of those who use illness as an excuse for not being all they can be . I've learned that I only have the now to live it as there is no guarantee that there will be a tomorrow . I've learned never to give just a little...give all or give none . I've learned that I will be hurt through loss if I love completely . I can live with that . I still choose to love completely and unconditionally . I've learned that those I love who have passed will never be far from me as long as I remember them . They live on in my heart . Um..
Telling a boyfriend that…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-07:1991841:Comment:5559372009-11-07T00:58:55.769ZKarenSmehttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/KarenSKelley
Um..<br />
Telling a boyfriend that his own mother had died, because I heard it first from his own brother.<br />
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Suggesting to an employer that I will take a pay cut to keep all the other employees.<br />
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Telling a boyfriend "NO, I don't want to keep having sex without dating for awhile."<br />
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Deciding that I need to get a divorce and that I have to do it myself.<br />
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Deciding that I've been homeless long enough and I need help from my (immediate) family to do this. Making the phone call was the hardest.<br />
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Telling my…
Um..<br />
Telling a boyfriend that his own mother had died, because I heard it first from his own brother.<br />
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Suggesting to an employer that I will take a pay cut to keep all the other employees.<br />
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Telling a boyfriend "NO, I don't want to keep having sex without dating for awhile."<br />
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Deciding that I need to get a divorce and that I have to do it myself.<br />
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Deciding that I've been homeless long enough and I need help from my (immediate) family to do this. Making the phone call was the hardest.<br />
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Telling my ex-husband that we can no longer be "friends" because we are not even friends.<br />
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Saying goodbye to my dying Mom when she did not know me or my brothers any more. Ray711 was 10. I was 14.<br />
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Life has its grown up moments. The hardest thing I've ever h…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-06:1991841:Comment:5555502009-11-06T22:47:04.699ZRayDanehttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Ray711
The hardest thing I've ever had to do is watch my mother die of cancer. She suffered for a couple of years, having had several surgeries, including a radical mastectomy. She died when I was ten.<br />
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I can't think of anything that could happen to me now that would be as bad or worse, unless something as tragic were to happen to one of my kids.
The hardest thing I've ever had to do is watch my mother die of cancer. She suffered for a couple of years, having had several surgeries, including a radical mastectomy. She died when I was ten.<br />
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I can't think of anything that could happen to me now that would be as bad or worse, unless something as tragic were to happen to one of my kids. Sandra and Maria, my heart go…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-06:1991841:Comment:5555362009-11-06T22:42:03.858ZRayDanehttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Ray711
Sandra and Maria, my heart goes out to both of you. I have no clue how traumatic the impact of something like this is on the mother. I don't claim to know what you have to deal with every day. But even as a guy, I know what I'd feel without my children.<br />
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You are both strong, smart and courageous women.<br />
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Ray
Sandra and Maria, my heart goes out to both of you. I have no clue how traumatic the impact of something like this is on the mother. I don't claim to know what you have to deal with every day. But even as a guy, I know what I'd feel without my children.<br />
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You are both strong, smart and courageous women.<br />
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Ray You're amazing. Thank you for…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-06:1991841:Comment:5555342009-11-06T22:40:28.394Zkainsworthhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/kainsworth
You're amazing. Thank you for the work you do.
You're amazing. Thank you for the work you do. Hardest thing I ever had to d…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-06:1991841:Comment:5554752009-11-06T22:01:29.979ZJoe Horizonhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/JoeHorizon
Hardest thing I ever had to do was to tell my mom that my sister died. That sucked big time. I learned that my mother did not want to hear that her daughter died. I did become different, thinking that this could happen again as I have two brothers. Yes, I would do it again but it would suck.
Hardest thing I ever had to do was to tell my mom that my sister died. That sucked big time. I learned that my mother did not want to hear that her daughter died. I did become different, thinking that this could happen again as I have two brothers. Yes, I would do it again but it would suck. I appreciate your kind words.…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2009-11-06:1991841:Comment:5550622009-11-06T18:57:30.747ZVgsDvahttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/VgsDva
I appreciate your kind words. Thank you.
I appreciate your kind words. Thank you.