good question. Certainly not to marry. I know. To become a 'better' person. To go out of my way to give a damn. To ask if everything is ok, when it looks like it might not be. To bring homeless kids off the street and into my crowdeed overstuffed little house. To buy that bum a cup of soup and give the old lady that was begging $20, though I could ill afford. To notice. To look. To care.