Defining Yourself - TBD2024-03-29T02:39:19Zhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/forum/topics/defining-yourself?groupUrl=forwomenonly&commentId=1991841%3AComment%3A1461090&groupId=1991841%3AGroup%3A99185&feed=yes&xn_auth=noSusan - One or more of my tea…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-01-27:1991841:Comment:14610952013-01-27T03:01:52.694ZSonja Gaylehttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/SonjaGayle
<p>Susan - One or more of my teaching collegues would constantly try to belittle my teaching ideas and procedures (I have a MS degree), when in actuality their teaching was almost nil - even to the point of leaving their students alone, while they were off on a mission to the teacher's room.</p>
<p>The point of this is just as you say Susan - "When someone makes a judgement of you - they are really judging and defining themselves". </p>
<p>Thanks for your excellent…</p>
<p>Susan - One or more of my teaching collegues would constantly try to belittle my teaching ideas and procedures (I have a MS degree), when in actuality their teaching was almost nil - even to the point of leaving their students alone, while they were off on a mission to the teacher's room.</p>
<p>The point of this is just as you say Susan - "When someone makes a judgement of you - they are really judging and defining themselves". </p>
<p>Thanks for your excellent point.</p>
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<p> </p> I would like an answer to thi…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-01-27:1991841:Comment:14610902013-01-27T02:56:49.107ZSonja Gaylehttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/SonjaGayle
<p>I would like an answer to this question, if anybody out there reads this or knows. In the last few years, I have noticed tremendous wrinkles in my neck area. I had lost 35 + pounds previous to this - wondering if that is part of the problem or is it just gravity??</p>
<p>I would like an answer to this question, if anybody out there reads this or knows. In the last few years, I have noticed tremendous wrinkles in my neck area. I had lost 35 + pounds previous to this - wondering if that is part of the problem or is it just gravity??</p> Do not accept anyone else's d…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2012-12-20:1991841:Comment:14194962012-12-20T04:00:50.969ZSusanhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/SusanZidek
<p>Do not accept anyone else's definition of you. Many people think that it's their job to do that, when in fact they are really judging and defining themselves.</p>
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<p>Do not accept anyone else's definition of you. Many people think that it's their job to do that, when in fact they are really judging and defining themselves.</p>
<p> </p> yes,thank you Dee. I guess I…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2012-12-15:1991841:Comment:14136762012-12-15T06:27:43.341ZJulia A Knaakehttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/JULIAAKNAAKE
<p>yes,thank you Dee. I guess I was blessed with good genes and so are my 3 daughters and 2 grand daughters</p>
<p>Keeping your skin clean is a good healthy thing and eating healthy foods with some exercise you are as healthy as you can be...the clothing is your choice...once I leave the house I never pull or tug at my clothes and I go on my merry way enjoying the day. My profile photo in the santa hat was taken 2 years ago at my then ripe age of 68 and I pretty much look the same except for…</p>
<p>yes,thank you Dee. I guess I was blessed with good genes and so are my 3 daughters and 2 grand daughters</p>
<p>Keeping your skin clean is a good healthy thing and eating healthy foods with some exercise you are as healthy as you can be...the clothing is your choice...once I leave the house I never pull or tug at my clothes and I go on my merry way enjoying the day. My profile photo in the santa hat was taken 2 years ago at my then ripe age of 68 and I pretty much look the same except for a few more grey hairs and a change of glasses</p> Very well said Julia. That is…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2012-12-15:1991841:Comment:14135702012-12-15T06:14:17.165ZDee Holland Eidsonhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/DeloresDHollandEidson
<p>Very well said Julia. That is exactly how I feel. I wear what looks best and feels comfortable to me.</p>
<p>I have not had any cosmetic surgery.It would scare me too much.I keep my skin clean and use a good face cream.</p>
<p>I try to stay looking as youthful as I can.It is very important that we like ourselves.</p>
<p>Very well said Julia. That is exactly how I feel. I wear what looks best and feels comfortable to me.</p>
<p>I have not had any cosmetic surgery.It would scare me too much.I keep my skin clean and use a good face cream.</p>
<p>I try to stay looking as youthful as I can.It is very important that we like ourselves.</p> I think a woman and men to sh…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2012-12-08:1991841:Comment:14047172012-12-08T22:15:25.320ZJulia A Knaakehttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/JULIAAKNAAKE
<p>I think a woman and men to should make themselves what THEY want and not by what the media want</p>
<p>if you are clean and neat and like what you are wearing and the color of your hair or the feeling of your skin then do as you wish</p>
<p>if you do not like that hair color go try on a wig till you get the color you are comfy with then go to a good colorist</p>
<p>you have to live with you and you have to like you best....tis nobody else's business</p>
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<p>I am me and I like me</p>
<p>I think a woman and men to should make themselves what THEY want and not by what the media want</p>
<p>if you are clean and neat and like what you are wearing and the color of your hair or the feeling of your skin then do as you wish</p>
<p>if you do not like that hair color go try on a wig till you get the color you are comfy with then go to a good colorist</p>
<p>you have to live with you and you have to like you best....tis nobody else's business</p>
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<p>I am me and I like me</p> I've noticed that necks seem…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2012-05-13:1991841:Comment:13760022012-05-13T16:36:29.405ZSlimhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Slim976
<p>I've noticed that necks seem to age even when women have their faces lifted. Is there a surgery that takes care of that?</p>
<p>Has anyone had anything done? I haven't yet, but might someday.</p>
<p>I'm waiting to see what happens to all the women who started doing this twenty years ago. If Joan Rivers doesn't develop face cancer or some rare skin ailment, I might go for it.</p>
<p>I've noticed that necks seem to age even when women have their faces lifted. Is there a surgery that takes care of that?</p>
<p>Has anyone had anything done? I haven't yet, but might someday.</p>
<p>I'm waiting to see what happens to all the women who started doing this twenty years ago. If Joan Rivers doesn't develop face cancer or some rare skin ailment, I might go for it.</p> My one vanity is my hands. I…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2010-07-05:1991841:Comment:10031872010-07-05T01:34:18.826ZQuiltyhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Quilty
My one vanity is my hands. I take good care of them, and like to keep my nails neatly manicured.<br />
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At the ultra-impressionable age of 13, someone I admired told me I had a "lovely flair with my hands." I began slathering them with vaseline and wearing cotton gloves to bed shortly after. I still do it often. My hands have barely a wrinkle. I have been as diligent with sunscreen and moisturizers on my hands as my face. I'll be 54 next month, and have almost no lines on my hands OR my face.<br />
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My one vanity is my hands. I take good care of them, and like to keep my nails neatly manicured.<br />
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At the ultra-impressionable age of 13, someone I admired told me I had a "lovely flair with my hands." I began slathering them with vaseline and wearing cotton gloves to bed shortly after. I still do it often. My hands have barely a wrinkle. I have been as diligent with sunscreen and moisturizers on my hands as my face. I'll be 54 next month, and have almost no lines on my hands OR my face.<br />
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I saw a close-up of Jennifer Anniston's hands recently, and they looked 100 years old! So if you DO choose cosmetic surgery, remember that if you don't take care of them, your hands will give away your true age every time! I have not had one thing done…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2010-05-31:1991841:Comment:9750762010-05-31T22:43:47.846ZDazzling Zoomer Gal Dianahttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/DazzlingZoomerGalDiana
I have not had one thing done - except teeth things (and even that - certainly NO teeth whitening to such an extent that the darn things proceed me into a room - ugh)! What IS this thing in the USA about teeth having to be whiter than the bathroom basin bowl ??? Not an big advocate of plastic surgery (unless it's for an accident or a disfiguring situation or a nose so big it's unhappy making) or something that impacts your ability to hold on to your job or your sanity in this crazy world. Still…
I have not had one thing done - except teeth things (and even that - certainly NO teeth whitening to such an extent that the darn things proceed me into a room - ugh)! What IS this thing in the USA about teeth having to be whiter than the bathroom basin bowl ??? Not an big advocate of plastic surgery (unless it's for an accident or a disfiguring situation or a nose so big it's unhappy making) or something that impacts your ability to hold on to your job or your sanity in this crazy world. Still undecided about fillers, and am not opposed to having moles and bumps smoothed or deleted and mild skin care procedures. Have had some vein leg problems taken care of - because it was a potential health problem. Have my hair looked after and I look after it - but the big thing for me is working out and keeping in shape.<br />
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Looking good for me means exercise and eating well and being happy and paying enough attention to myself that I can then forget about "myself" the moment I leave the house - and concentrate on others. But it is hard work, and I respect women who look after themselves, dress properly ( no - those nasty sweats and horrid tee shirt does not make you look "natural" ) and who respect the right of others to do the same. A lot has to do with the lifestyle one leads.<br />
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This is an interesting series, do take the time to watch it if you can - there is considerable fodder for discussion. This makes me think of the sc…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2010-05-31:1991841:Comment:9748612010-05-31T18:11:28.268ZQuiltyhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Quilty
This makes me think of the scene in "The Women" (I liked the original better!), where one of them is accosted by a department store clerk trying to sell a 'facelift in a jar.' Her reply is "This is my face. Deal with it."<br />
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That's me, too.
This makes me think of the scene in "The Women" (I liked the original better!), where one of them is accosted by a department store clerk trying to sell a 'facelift in a jar.' Her reply is "This is my face. Deal with it."<br />
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That's me, too.