A Strange Journey - TBD2024-03-28T13:27:20Zhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/forum/topics/a-strange-journey?groupUrl=dramady&commentId=1991841%3AComment%3A1510469&groupId=1991841%3AGroup%3A1431923&feed=yes&xn_auth=noWow Aruba! Have a great time…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-28:1991841:Comment:15108212013-03-28T17:28:48.603ZLifesighshttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Lifesighs
<p>Wow Aruba! Have a great time and let us know what was most fun.</p>
<p>Wow Aruba! Have a great time and let us know what was most fun.</p> I would take the remarried ar…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-28:1991841:Comment:15109062013-03-28T16:57:30.234ZDellhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/DellHousewright
I would take the remarried argument but I am in Aruba with my 2 girls today and busy....actually what is right for one is not always right for another....there see you later!
I would take the remarried argument but I am in Aruba with my 2 girls today and busy....actually what is right for one is not always right for another....there see you later! For you to have a clean toile…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-28:1991841:Comment:15106622013-03-28T00:53:47.705ZWayne Goodwinhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/WayneGoodwin
<p>For you to have a clean toilet seat . Do you have to keep it clean or does Husband help out ......</p>
<p>For you to have a clean toilet seat . Do you have to keep it clean or does Husband help out ......</p> ahh.. the age old question ..…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-27:1991841:Comment:15104692013-03-27T17:50:37.418Zfrenchyhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/frenchy160
<p>ahh.. the age old question .. to marry or to just rent .. or .. you could co let.. i suppose whatever works for you and the partner ( if you choose to have one ) you choose or chooses you .. i can look back on all the loves i've had in my life ( and i've had a few but its not hundreds ) and at this point i can say i'm glad i'm not with them anymore .. even tho i'm sure i loved them at the time .. i'm not sure what it is that can make some people fall in love and stay in love for a lifetime…</p>
<p>ahh.. the age old question .. to marry or to just rent .. or .. you could co let.. i suppose whatever works for you and the partner ( if you choose to have one ) you choose or chooses you .. i can look back on all the loves i've had in my life ( and i've had a few but its not hundreds ) and at this point i can say i'm glad i'm not with them anymore .. even tho i'm sure i loved them at the time .. i'm not sure what it is that can make some people fall in love and stay in love for a lifetime .. i wish i knew .. i do think tho that at this point in my life i have a much better idea what it is i want . and what i don't want .. while when i was a youth i had no clue .. so if i was ever ready to really marry again i'd be more able to do so now than ever before .. but life is funny ain't it ?? now that i know .. i'm not so sure i'd wanna do it .. but you should never say never .. love will make you do some crazy ass shit .. ask me how i know .. </p> You're doing the right thing…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-27:1991841:Comment:15100312013-03-27T14:44:50.722ZLifesighshttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/Lifesighs
<p>You're doing the right thing uno, it's wonderful to know yourself enough to be content. I had some disasters in my early married life and a long single spell that was fun however I chose to jump in again at 47, its been great this time around 20+ years except my husband is older so it's beginning to be more of a caretaker situation. He wants me to travel now if I wish but I don't feel right leaving him home by himself. He can't take care of himself anymore.</p>
<p>You're doing the right thing uno, it's wonderful to know yourself enough to be content. I had some disasters in my early married life and a long single spell that was fun however I chose to jump in again at 47, its been great this time around 20+ years except my husband is older so it's beginning to be more of a caretaker situation. He wants me to travel now if I wish but I don't feel right leaving him home by himself. He can't take care of himself anymore.</p> I have my animals, my work, a…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-27:1991841:Comment:15100302013-03-27T14:43:42.003Zdwalthttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/dwalt
<p>I have my animals, my work, and friends. Life is good compared to most people. I do worry about what is happening with our present goverment but all I can do is vote and pray. Don't dwell on anything, does no good.</p>
<p>I have my animals, my work, and friends. Life is good compared to most people. I do worry about what is happening with our present goverment but all I can do is vote and pray. Don't dwell on anything, does no good.</p> I sure can relate to all of y…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-27:1991841:Comment:15100272013-03-27T14:35:31.457ZWayne Goodwinhttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/WayneGoodwin
<p>I sure can relate to all of you . I been single 30 years now and have my ways that nobody can change . I enjoy being a long in my own little world . Sure the loneliness is there most all the time . A companion would be nice to have but not tied down to anyone any thing . I don't need a lover , just a friend , just want to live a quite life till my end .... </p>
<p>I sure can relate to all of you . I been single 30 years now and have my ways that nobody can change . I enjoy being a long in my own little world . Sure the loneliness is there most all the time . A companion would be nice to have but not tied down to anyone any thing . I don't need a lover , just a friend , just want to live a quite life till my end .... </p> It was my desire to retire an…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-27:1991841:Comment:15100252013-03-27T14:32:36.397Zuno,dos,3http://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/unodos3
<p>It was my desire to retire and then travel that was one of the major incentives for me to remain single. I knew if I was to marry again and then get divorced again retirement and travel would become a more problematic . Things have worked ot beyond my expectations. I have travelled when and wherever I've pleased. I've spent 4 of the past 6 winters hiking in Sedona......a couple of winters in Florida....no need to please anyone but myself, no need to compromise: "we've gone to Sedona 3 years…</p>
<p>It was my desire to retire and then travel that was one of the major incentives for me to remain single. I knew if I was to marry again and then get divorced again retirement and travel would become a more problematic . Things have worked ot beyond my expectations. I have travelled when and wherever I've pleased. I've spent 4 of the past 6 winters hiking in Sedona......a couple of winters in Florida....no need to please anyone but myself, no need to compromise: "we've gone to Sedona 3 years in a row, let's go somewhere else" "I think Florida is too humid" etc., etc. All valid points of view if you are marriage partners......but moot points when I just need to please myself. </p> Marriage is not the be all an…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-27:1991841:Comment:15098472013-03-27T14:13:33.779Zcrestofwaveshttp://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/crestofwaves
<p>Marriage is not the be all and end all. For some, it's magic. For others, it is decidedly more work than being single. </p>
<p>I think at this stage of my life where my restless spirit has settled down somewhat, I am more suited for marriage, but, because of my situation, my marriage will now hold me back in my retirement. I had planned to do a lot of road tripping and canoeing and hiking and my husband planned on retiring to a golf community. Well, his illness is a big kabosh on those…</p>
<p>Marriage is not the be all and end all. For some, it's magic. For others, it is decidedly more work than being single. </p>
<p>I think at this stage of my life where my restless spirit has settled down somewhat, I am more suited for marriage, but, because of my situation, my marriage will now hold me back in my retirement. I had planned to do a lot of road tripping and canoeing and hiking and my husband planned on retiring to a golf community. Well, his illness is a big kabosh on those ideas. But, we'll see each other through it, and yet I dream that he would get well and all our plans could come true.</p>
<p>I think noble souls are really marrying people. I don't think I am that noble.</p>
<p>You must rent and watch Amour, in French. Talk about nobility!</p> We are soooo much alike dwalt…tag:teebeedee.ning.com,2013-03-27:1991841:Comment:15101432013-03-27T13:53:33.055Zuno,dos,3http://teebeedee.ning.com/profile/unodos3
<p>We are soooo much alike dwalt.</p>
<p>I'm not bitter either. I was a fish......thank the Lord for the catch and release program. </p>
<p>We are soooo much alike dwalt.</p>
<p>I'm not bitter either. I was a fish......thank the Lord for the catch and release program. </p>